Arneen

Arneen

MDL is without a doubt one of the BEST investments I’ve ever made for myself. This is coming from someone who knows what other programs out there are teaching & respectfully feeding back - this is GOLD. Kelsey practices integrity-based coaching that actually helps & isn’t just dressed in cute marketing with another “high value dating” hashtag 😒 She is the QUEEN of Discernment 👸 MDL liberates AND grounds women in the practicalities of healthy dating without the garbage advice that has you in yet another spiral wondering if you’re going crazy or good enough. Outside the really thoughtfully curated course material, I felt incredibly validated and valued in the space, exactly where I was - WITHOUT the pressure of having to figure it all out & rush the process. 


Kelsey has been the breath of fresh air ANY woman dating or thinking of putting themselves back out there needs 💖 I’m a woman who knows a lot about how to have solid relationships. But we can’t always read the label from inside the jar - I value perspective deeply from someone who’s walked the path. I could be frank enough to vent & be supported enough to exhale in knowing I made the right choice working with you. Consuming information that was sending me into more confusion daily about my dating choices and moves was NOT something I wanted to keep dabbling in. Thank you!

Nov 26, 2025

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Married my dream partner and we just closed on our first home! 🏡

Jan 28, 2026

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Adrian Yager

I purchased Magnetic Dating Lab and within DAYS I had so many quality connections, I had to stop swiping on apps and setting up dates. ☺️

Feb 2, 2026

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I'm 35, and after being in several traumatic relationships, I am finally in a happy, healthy trusting relationship where my nervous system feels calm and I really cannot thank Kelsey enough for helping me find this amazing man. Within days, I was meeting quality men, and after only 3 months, I am dating my dream guy. He is kind, warm, empathetic, emotionally mature, smart, handsome, tall, funny, a badass doctor in LA, and is genuinely compatible with me on morals, values, politics, religion and love languages. 


I have my life together and want kids, family and marriage in the next 1-3 years and so does he. I have never had a relationship that feels so right, so secure, healthy and on the same page. This is all thanks to Kelsey. I have never had anyone in my life help me as much as you have in dating, life, love and even self- love and confidence. I am forever grateful! 


She was incredible at reading me and calling me out on my bad dating habits, but also showing me how to fix them with personal examples. I love her magnetic dating lab. She helped me make my dating profile on hinge sound like me and everything I was honestly looking for. Kelsey’s weed out questions are incredible at helping you quickly weed out guys who are not a match for you and see the men who are looking for something serious. I felt like I was back in the driver seat and all my jaded app dating went out the window. I went on many dates with great guys but Kelsey helped me spot the red/pink flags quickly and I wittled down my options to the best guy for me. She helped make dating fun again, even on the apps while I was finding him. Thanks again Kelsey. I am truly grateful for your kindness, consistently, intelligence and relationship skills and advice. 

Oct 20, 2025

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I’m giggling submitting this because I watched Kelsey’s videos this weekend, uploaded my profile last night, and woke up to messages like this today 😊

Sep 13, 2025

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Ophelia B

I was reluctant to invest in Magnetic Dating Lab because of the cost, but it was SO worth it. It completely transformed my approach to dating—I feel calmer, more confident, and equipped with practical tools to navigate relationships. Her coaching goes beyond advice; she teaches you how to think critically, set healthy boundaries, and communicate openly. The MDL modules offer deep self-work alongside actionable strategies, and what I’ve learned has improved not just my dating life but also my friendships, family relationships, and professional interactions. The group calls are another game-changer to add "real-life" nuance, making everything even more applicable. MDL is 300% worth it! I’m beyond happy I enrolled in MDL. If you’re on the fence about working with Kelsey—do it.

Aug 22, 2025

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Ayesha S.

Other dating coaches tell you to just “follow your intuition” or “be yourself” without any clear steps to move forward. Kelsey gives you concrete strategies and tools you can use immediately to take action and get results.

Feb 3, 2026

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I'm divorced, and now engaged to my dream partner who is safe, kind, and emotionally mature We both have kids and are blending our families beautifully. We’re inseparable and taken with each other in all the best ways.

Jan 18, 2026

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Orange County, CA

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I'm divorced, this is incredibly simple & practical advice that’s easy to implement. Within a day I started getting more aligned matches and within 1 month met my partner of over a year! He said what attracted him to me was my values in my profile.

Jun 9, 2025

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Jessica H.

I was hesitant to join Magnetic Dating Lab since I'm queer and interested in other queer folks. But just like Kelsey said, what I learned is healthy dating advice really is the same among all genders. I was glad to see that all of the course material used "they/them" pronouns and was completely gender neutral, and I'm learning a LOT. I'm finally breaking out of the same old patterns I've dealt with for years and seeing progress in my love life!!!

Aug 28, 2025

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My husband liked my Hinge profile so much he bought (for the only time in all his time on the apps) a $3 rose to get to the front of my DMs. Kelsey's strategy works!!

Jun 5, 2025

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I just wanted to thank Kelsey - your courses are truly life-changing. You gave me the tools to date with clarity and self-worth, and because of that, I found an incredible partner. He is the most emotionally available, safe, and consistent person I’ve ever known. I never thought love could feel this secure and easeful until now. I wouldn’t have used any of these words to describe what I was looking for in a partner before I found your courses. We both have the same values. Your values-based approach to Bumble bios and the list of weed-out questions changed online dating! We met a few months after I finished the courses. If I hadn’t done the work, we never would’ve connected! Your work helped me work through past betrayal trauma, break old patterns, and trust myself again. I’m so grateful for everything you’ve created - thank you for being part of our journey. ♥️♥️

Jul 28, 2025

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I'm expecting my first child with my amazing husband thanks to Kelsey’s strategy!! 💛

Jun 26, 2025

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Divya

I was skeptical of Kelsey’s method working for people my age from my cultural background, but 2 weeks after joining Magnetic Dating Lab, I met my boyfriend of 4 months! On our first date, we reached a level of emotional depth I haven’t had in any relationship before. He shares my cultural background which is really important to me. He explicitly mentioned that he loved how deep my Hinge was and we had very similar perspectives on life. I’m sooo happy! 😊

Feb 27, 2025

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Lauren

This works. I updated hinge with the phrases Kelsey provided. Had 22 matches on hinge within one day!

Jul 6, 2025

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I’m ENGAGED!!! Working with Kelsey took me from overgiving in to guys who weren’t ready for anything serious to this. I can’t recommend her enough!

Mar 31, 2025

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Kelsey isn’t like other dating coaches who try to get men to chase you. She's all about empowering you to attract a healthy relationship. She helped me find my forever person! 😍

Feb 17, 2025

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Celia Z.

As a woman who dates women, I wasn't sure MDL would work for me, but I'm happy to say I've found an amazing partner thanks to Kelsey's advice!! We're going on 8 months now :)

May 30, 2025

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Bella

I'm not sure what sort of witchcraft you are practicing lady... but DAMN does it work! I took your course and redid my bumble profile. Immediately started getting higher quality matches. One man has exceeded my expectations in every way. I feel so strong and capable now of choosing someone who is perfect for me. And worthy of me. thank you, thank you, thank you 😊

Mar 10, 2025

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I can’t recommend Kelsey enough! She changed my whole outlook and attitude about dating. She made me realize that bending over backwards for these men wasn’t going to make them like me more. Thanks to Kelsey the power was now in my hands. I felt more confident and no longer broken up if a guy didn’t want a second date with me. And thanks to Kelsey’s advice I started swiping outside my usual type and I just married the most amazing man. A man who makes me feel confident, sexy and secure in our relationship. A man I would have overlooked without Kelsey’s advice! So again I can’t recommend Kelsey enough ! She will change your life for the better!

Jul 26, 2025

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Dorothée Grevers

I'm working my way through Kelsey’s courses and for the first time, "therapy" is actually working for me. I went through therapy in my 20s when I had a "love crisis" and didn't find it very helpful... Kelsey’s courses, however, are so practical, based on modern dating, and touch on so many important topics. I really enjoy the course format because it allows me to re-watch things, take my time to process things, and really work on things. Thank you thank you thank you!

Mar 19, 2025

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PamElle

I updated my profile, and within 10 minutes of making the tweaks, l'm not kidding 10 minutes... I had three high-quality likes all searching for similar things as me. 

Mar 27, 2025

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Erica

Kelsey helped me regain my confidence in dating. I was super hung up on an ex and she was there to help me understand why I was feeling that way. She also helped me put in perspective what I was looking for in a future partner based off of my past experiences and my personal goals. I highly recommend her! She’s a coach in your corner rooting you on through your trials and tribulations but she’s also your friend celebrating your victories (big and small)!!!

Mar 21, 2024

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Melisa

Working with Kelsey has been a wonderful and enlightening experience. She’s truly knowledgeable and has the perfect strategy that works to attract the type of partner you’re looking for! With her help, I was able to attract my now girlfriend on a dating app. And for the first time ever, it is a healthy relationship! I’m so happy and thankful to have worked with Kelsey. 💫 🙏🏼 ✨

Apr 22, 2025

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I’m divorced and after ONE DAY I started getting quality matches!! I very quickly matched with my boyfriend of now over 2 years. 🥰

Feb 15, 2025

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Stephanie C.

Working with Kelsey is like being wrapped in a big hug and gently having your mind blown lol. I'm so glad I'm working with her. The way she explains things makes so much sense and is so smart. I have disorganized attachment and she makes me feel normal and not crazy. Every time we voice note, I feel so much better.

Apr 7, 2025

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Katy H.

Chattanooga, TN

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Kelsey's strategy helped me meet my parter of 2 years! We really connect on our shared values, which is something I had not fully experienced in a relationship before. Kelsey has a warm presence and is great to work with.

Feb 19, 2025

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Laura

While her courses have already helped me shift the way I approach dating (srsly get Magnetic Dating Lab!), getting to speak with her directly made such a difference! I was able to talk through my unique situations in real time & felt fully supported. I didn't even have to worry about taking notes—she followed up with a super helpful recap email, including scripts and guidance tailored to what we discussed. 😍 Working with Kelsey felt personal & thoughtful. I left the call feeling more confident, clear, and cared for. Absolutely worth it.

Jun 16, 2025

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Fatima

I actually just went ahead and purchased the course. And you're right, I got back on the apps like 4 days ago and I'm already getting so many more aligned matches 🥳

Apr 10, 2025

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Melanie

I owe my current partnership to Kelsey's Magnetic Dating Lab course. It really helped give me strategy when using the dating apps - something I desperately needed - to help me find what I really wanted and sort past everything else. She was super helpful in answering all my questions as I worked through the course. In today's dating climate, I really recommend this course if you're serious about finding your person!

Mar 30, 2025

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Carol

I'm in my fifties, and MDL has given me mind-blowing breakthroughs in dating and beyond: relating to men romantically and my relationship with myself. Kelsey is amazing--her methods, tools and style are insightful, real, practical and tie in seamlessly with other therapy/self help tools I already use. I'm even diving deep into her other classes and 1:1 coaching!

Apr 7, 2025

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Jessica

Chicago

I was addicted to emotionally unavailable men and used to think it wasn't as "exciting" when a guy would show up for me consistently. But thanks to Kelsey's courses, now I know it is healthy. My favorite part has to be the core value/ personality exercises in Magnetic Dating Lab, because when the hormones kick in, it is so hard to stay rational. I came home from a date last night and reviewed all the things I wrote down during the course, and it really helped me evaluate how I feel about him and our connection. Excited about where this is heading!! Thank you Kelsey for the hard work you put in!

Jan 4, 2024

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Jamie

Just bought my wedding dress. 🥰 Feels WILD!! Thank you Kelsey!!

Mar 5, 2025

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Irena Z.

Financial Analyst | Boston, MA

I used to be so anxious in relationships, second-guessing myself and suspicious of my partner despite no evidence. Then I worked with Kelsey. I literally feel so healthy and secure in my relationship now, and it feels like a direct reflection of the healthy secure relationship I have with myself.

Jan 4, 2024

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Sasha

Literally the last two guys l've gone out with are the most quality, interesting guys with actual potential l've met in a really long time and it's unbelievable. I feel very excited about the process! My new dating profile and all the changes your coaching helped me make definitely worked and definitely attracted way better candidates than I'm used to, so I'm very excited and hopeful!

Apr 9, 2025

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I'm finally off Bumble!!! Thank you Kelsey!!

Apr 5, 2025

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In the happiest, healthiest relationship of my life thanks to Kelsey’s programs! 😊

Apr 9, 2025

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Chelsea R.

I took Kelsey’s dating app masterclass, had an epiphany, journaled, changed my dating profile and matched with a quality guy 2 days later! Used her weed out question. We've been dating for a month now and it feels like my most adult relationship yet :)

Mar 23, 2025

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Kelsey’s method is INCREDIBLE and it WORKS!! Before I met my fiancé, I matched with so quality men just one DAY into using her strategy.

Jan 20, 2025

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Syanna S.

My favorite part of Magnetic Dating Lab was the examples of dating profiles that work. I was like wow 🤯 mine has so much room for improvement!! Then I updated mine and started matching with quality guys almost immediately.

Apr 9, 2025

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Kait

Since my husband and I split, I've been on a healing journey and Magnetic Dating Lab has been SO helpful. I was with my husband for so long, I've literally never dated before, but I've met the most genuine guy who respects my boundaries and we have so much in common, he takes me on real dates. 🥰

Apr 3, 2025

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Katie

I had been following Kelsey for at least a year, before I started dating again after divorce, so I started to get in the mindset from her free content, then when was finally ready to start dating, I purchased her dating bio overhaul and several other courses of hers. After I implemented the dating bio overhaul, I began catching the eye of very successful, thoughtful, respectful men. Just precious! Pretty much the day after I went through her bio overhaul course, I matched with this dreamy, driven, ridiculously intelligent guy from a sweet family with core values similar to mine and we have been enjoying getting to know each other since! There are more, similar to that one, but he’s been the most persistent, so far. It’s also amazing to have the tools to set boundaries, slow your attachment and work through any anxiety that comes when you meet someone you’re interested in. I am so grateful for Kelsey’s work and highly respect what she is doing. I believe this could be absolutely transformational and healing in our dating culture for the benefit of our mental health and future families.

Apr 18, 2025

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Anna S

I have gone out with 4 great guys since I started working with Kelsey. Her courses and guidance have helped me weed out several guys in conversations on the apps. It has helped me change a lot about my behavior as I date to especially NOT jump into sex or a lot of physical intimacy right off the bat. It has given me the space to better evaluate these men and whether or not they were the right kind of matches for me.

Mar 2, 2025

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My HUSBAND ahhhh!! ☺️🥰 we are so compatible and I never knew love like this existed. Thank you Kelsey🙏🏼

Feb 26, 2025

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Kelsey helped me transition into friendship with a guy who had resistance to making any concrete plans for the future, and help me realize my areas of emotional unavailability that kept pulling me to unavailable guys. Shortly after, I met the man who is now my fiance!! 😍

Jun 12, 2025

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London

After working with Kelsey, everything has just felt like it's going in the right direction. Like this is the most healthy communication l've ever experienced in ANY relationship of ANY kind - friendship, family, romantic…

Jan 3, 2024

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Michelle Saxon

I've done a lot of self work, but still found so much value in just the first module of Magnetic Dating Lab!! Can't wait to watch the rest.

Apr 4, 2025

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Alicia Sizemore

Thanks to Kelsey, I found my person!! It's crazy how your life can change so completely in 60 days! I love his smile and his eyes... but the thing I'm drawn to most is we are aligned on our values and worldview! Man, what a crazy huge difference THAT makes!! I never knew what that could feel like, and im forever indebted to Kelsey!

Apr 5, 2025

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Kavitha

I have completed Module 1 & 2 of Magnetic Dating Lab and have been LOVING the content so far. I've been using the daily affirmation journal as part of my morning routine this last week and just updated my Hinge profile today based on Module 2.

Nov 25, 2024

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Magnetic Dating Lab changed my entire approach. Within a few months I met a great partner who sees the world the way I do. We moved in together this January, and we’re getting married next fall! I’ve recommended your courses to a number of friends because I can see them struggling with the same patterns and frustrating outcomes that I struggled with for so long.

Oct 9, 2024

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Sasha Swyers

HOW damn exciting it is to be building a connection with a successful man my age, who is looking for the same type of partner I am, is hot and sexy AF, is a direct communicator and VERY clear on what he wants, is RECIPROCAL, emotionally available, giving all indications of being a quality man of substance and integrity. Holy hell! 🤯 Thank you Kelsey!!

Apr 9, 2025

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Carol Weissand

I was avoiding dating by staying busy at work. But I recently went on a first date and it was great! It was really easy and I enjoyed myself. It's thanks to you that I stayed open-minded to him. And I didn't get nervous or socially awkward! It's nice to feel more calm and confident on dates!

Dec 28, 2024

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Charlene

Redid my Hinge and already have 3 quality matches!!

Mar 12, 2025

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Emma Gibson

I was seeing a guy for a few months before I started Magnetic Dating Lab. Wish I had this course then, but my confusion about him is what led me to sign up and it's been so insightful! I can see now that I got very anxiously attached and brought needy energy and a sense of urgency to the connection. Now, I'm dating other people and I feel so much more relaxed and confident. I feel a lot more grounded and I'm having more fun and just enjoying the process :)

Apr 6, 2025

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Yelena

Magnetic Dating Lab was SO helpful! Other dating advice tells you to keep conversations superficial when you meet someone, which is so time consuming to figure out if you’re compatible. I am very conscious of my time. I SO prefer Kelsey’s approach, which helps you know if someone is compatible without having to talk for weeks or meet them in person.

Apr 2, 2025

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Zola

Just updated my bio after watching DABOM and it was so fun and empowering! Like it made me think more about what I actually want and being bold enough to just put what I want and weed people out! Definitely a good upgrade from my old profile 🔥🔥🔥

Jan 3, 2024

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Lea Parks

I have four dates this weekend utilizing what l've been learning from Magnetic Dating Lab. Meaningful, deep connections are abundant and l'm so excited!

Apr 8, 2025

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Katie Baggett

I purchased several of Kelsey’s courses a couple of days ago. I did a run through and have already listened to almost all the modules. This is exactly what I have been needing!! Thank you so much 🙏🏼

Feb 27, 2025

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Barbara

My therapist started doing dating coaching and I love her, but her method sucked. I'm 65 and I didn't see any results at all. Not many likes and no matches. Since making the changes using the Magnetic Method, I've had an overwhelming amount of interest from so many QUALITY men.

Apr 1, 2025

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Jane H.

Since having Kelsey’s strategy and support, l've noticed an inner shift from protectiveness to being more open & vulnerable. Each time l've been vulnerable with my top connection, he has reciprocated with even more proactive gestures. This feels very healthy and grounded and new for me. 🌸

Apr 9, 2025

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This works fast !!!!! I found Kelsey after I randomly clicked on her IG page and thought I would check out her content and get the online dating bio masterclass and just see what happens, I didn't have much expectations but wanted to give it a go. I used Kelsey's advice and now have 250 likes on Bumble. I uploaded nice quality pictures of myself and also my unique bio and the next day I had 150 likes, however over the past few weeks, the number continues to grow, which is crazy. With my new bio I also feel more empowered, and I am not in 'hiding' energy anymore. These men get to see how I am, what I like and if they don't like it they can happily swipe left 🙂 Thank you Kelsey for your help I was able to implement instantly and get results xx

Mar 31, 2025

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Tiffany Adams

Washington D.C.

Thanks to Kelsey, I'm matching with great guys on Bumble that I can already see green flags in and that I'm excited about. The best part is that now I just want to meet people and see if it goes somewhere. I'm not so emotionally invested right away, and if it doesn't go anywhere, I know I'm gonna be fine and it's not gonna define who l am. 😊

Jun 20, 2023

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Ella Harvey

Guernsey

Kelsey is phenomenal. She made me think for myself. I have complete trust in her. She has the most incredible and empowering way of helping you come to the right decision on your own terms without putting those thoughts into your head. I wish I could see Kelsey, weekly, forever! She had such a huge impact on my life and made me feel safe at a time where I mentally wasn’t in right headspace. I will be forever grateful for her help and the lesson she told me I will keep with me for life. Thank you so much, Kelsey. I highly recommend her.

Jan 21, 2025

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Vanessa Arthur

Graduate student | Alabama

Kelsey takes abstract concepts like self-worth and distills them into tangible, concrete techniques that work. I'm getting back to the place where I know my worth and I know I don't deserve what I've been tolerating from men. I'm getting comfortable in my skin and saying no to people who's values don't align with mine!

Jul 24, 2023

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Jessi

Los Angeles

Less than 24 hours after I posted my new bio I matched with someone who's the best person I've seen on there in YEARS. He said my profile was the most intriguing he'd seen and he wished he knew how to write his as well. So I sent him Kelsey's course!!

Oct 14, 2024

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Catherine H.

Kelsey's expertise in healthy communication in a relationship is unmatched. Like I don't even realise I'm still not communicating my feelings appropriately then I read her first sentence and I'm like ohhh yes that's what communication is lol

Aug 25, 2022

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Kelsey's method helped me find my husband and hold on to him. It kept me so grounded when my anxious attachment threatened my relationship. She validates your experience while giving you skills to reframe your perspective & take actions that align with your values. She gave me hope when I was discouraged with the process. She taught me I could trust myself which transformed every area of my life. I am happily married & truly owe that to Kelsey as 1) I likely wouldn't have been on the dating apps to match with my husband if it weren't for her and 2) I would have run a few times when my relationship anxiety kicked in strong. Working with Kelsey was 100% worth it to me, because truly can you put a value on forever love? Forever thankful & grateful 🫶🏼

Oct 11, 2024

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Macy G.

After taking MDL, I ended things fully with my toxic ex and I'm going on a third date with an incredibly amazing guy who's emotionally vulnerable and open. I'm focusing on healthy pacing and not getting ahead of myself. THANK YOU for being part of my story 🤗

Sep 10, 2024

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Chelsey Z

Thanks to Magnetic Dating Lab, I have a boyfriend 🥰🥰 He's the best ever!

Apr 3, 2025

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Lyla T.

I changed my tinder bio according to your formula and a few weeks later met the most wonderful, kindest, smartest man who absolutely shares my values and we've been together for 3 months now ❤️❤️❤️

Apr 10, 2022

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Lauren S.

I used Kelsey's dating app attraction strategy and literally matched with the guy I am now dating in just a few days of making the change. I have never met anyone like him. We are both still trying to comprehend how we found someone who aligns with our values so perfectly. I've never met anyone I could see actually building and growing a life with so clearly and he feels the same. We love that we each have our own independent lives, but support each other in our own dreams. I just want to say thank you for helping me reflect on and find what I was really looking for in a partner.

Jun 18, 2022

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Michelle S.

Ontario, Canada

Working with Kelsey changed my life. Literally. (Currently wedding planning!! 💍)


Things turning out better than I imagined? Check.
Not getting hurt? Check.
Knowing I'm here for myself no matter what happens? Hell yea.

You're the best of the best Kelsey! You taught me the skill of self-trust while attracting the love of my life. Thank you!!

Jan 2, 2024

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Archana K

I reached out to Kelsey when I was coping with depression after a bad breakup. A lot of dating coaches out there emphasized on feminine energy and chasing strategies that did not resonate with me. Kelsey's therapy-based approach to dating coaching felt so refreshing! 


She gave me so much confidence that there could be someone for me out there. I felt supported at a time when I had internalized so much shame and was dealing with low self-worth. She helped me identify deeper attachment and enmeshment issues. With her help, I felt like I had a compelling dating bio that finally sounded like me. I love the fact that she provides support in between coaching sessions via Voxer. It literally felt like I had a trustworthy friend I could confide in and ask the silliest doubts when it came to dating. She also coached me with strategies that helped me heal from my breakup and reflect on lessons learnt from the relationship. 2 years later, I feel so thankful that my ex and I are no longer together. I did go on a few dates that did not lead to anything more and thereafter, I took a break from dating to focus on personal goals and my career. I highly recommend her courses and 1:1 coaching as it's rooted in psychology. She's a fantastic coach - warm and empathetic and always willing to help you discover more about yourself. I look forward to working with her again in the near future when I'm ready to jump back into dating!

Feb 17, 2026

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Doing the work on yourself is a game changer!! I started doing this work a year ago with another therapist but when I found Kelsey the work got so much easier and made a lot more sense. For the first time in 15 years I’m in an incredible healthy relationship with an amazing man! We are building and growing together and workig toward moving in together sometime next year! I still have old triggers come up that I have to self regulate but he actually wants to help put my mind at ease and talk about it! I’m so thankful I took the leap to truly do this work on myself. And bonus; I get this cute dog out of the deal!

Sep 17, 2025

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Bonnie D.

As a queer person, all of Kelsey's advice was incredibly applicable to me and easy to use. MDL was definitely worth it. I'm attracting much more aligned partners already. thank you Kelsey!

Mar 10, 2025

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Tegan

Really appreciate Kelsey’s content, I think so many of us can’t be reminded enough that the goal is not to be ‘chosen’ but rather to find real compatibility 🥹 lovely human sharing lovely, practical messages

Jun 13, 2025

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Heather B

San Francisco

Kelsey's strategies WORK to filter out guys who have obviously given up on dating and are half assing it WHILE attracting guys who are taking it seriously. Since I started using the weed out question, I've found many guys who do actually want to get deep really quick! And it seems to be refreshing to them too instead of getting another "what do you do for fun?" message.

Dec 30, 2023

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Charity

Talking to a new guy and it's very promising so far. Reciprocal communication, super smart, successful, does photography as a hobby and when I recommended a podcast episode he downloads it and listens to it TODAY. 😍

Jan 23, 2025

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Arneen

MDL is without a doubt one of the BEST investments I’ve ever made for myself. This is coming from someone who knows what other programs out there are teaching & respectfully feeding back - this is GOLD. Kelsey practices integrity-based coaching that actually helps & isn’t just dressed in cute marketing with another “high value dating” hashtag 😒 She is the QUEEN of Discernment 👸 MDL liberates AND grounds women in the practicalities of healthy dating without the garbage advice that has you in yet another spiral wondering if you’re going crazy or good enough. Outside the really thoughtfully curated course material, I felt incredibly validated and valued in the space, exactly where I was - WITHOUT the pressure of having to figure it all out & rush the process. 


Kelsey has been the breath of fresh air ANY woman dating or thinking of putting themselves back out there needs 💖 I’m a woman who knows a lot about how to have solid relationships. But we can’t always read the label from inside the jar - I value perspective deeply from someone who’s walked the path. I could be frank enough to vent & be supported enough to exhale in knowing I made the right choice working with you. Consuming information that was sending me into more confusion daily about my dating choices and moves was NOT something I wanted to keep dabbling in. Thank you!

Nov 26, 2025

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Married my dream partner and we just closed on our first home! 🏡

Jan 28, 2026

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Adrian Yager

I purchased Magnetic Dating Lab and within DAYS I had so many quality connections, I had to stop swiping on apps and setting up dates. ☺️

Feb 2, 2026

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Emily K

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I'm 35, and after being in several traumatic relationships, I am finally in a happy, healthy trusting relationship where my nervous system feels calm and I really cannot thank Kelsey enough for helping me find this amazing man. Within days, I was meeting quality men, and after only 3 months, I am dating my dream guy. He is kind, warm, empathetic, emotionally mature, smart, handsome, tall, funny, a badass doctor in LA, and is genuinely compatible with me on morals, values, politics, religion and love languages. 


I have my life together and want kids, family and marriage in the next 1-3 years and so does he. I have never had a relationship that feels so right, so secure, healthy and on the same page. This is all thanks to Kelsey. I have never had anyone in my life help me as much as you have in dating, life, love and even self- love and confidence. I am forever grateful! 


She was incredible at reading me and calling me out on my bad dating habits, but also showing me how to fix them with personal examples. I love her magnetic dating lab. She helped me make my dating profile on hinge sound like me and everything I was honestly looking for. Kelsey’s weed out questions are incredible at helping you quickly weed out guys who are not a match for you and see the men who are looking for something serious. I felt like I was back in the driver seat and all my jaded app dating went out the window. I went on many dates with great guys but Kelsey helped me spot the red/pink flags quickly and I wittled down my options to the best guy for me. She helped make dating fun again, even on the apps while I was finding him. Thanks again Kelsey. I am truly grateful for your kindness, consistently, intelligence and relationship skills and advice. 

Oct 20, 2025

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Joha Salazar

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I’m giggling submitting this because I watched Kelsey’s videos this weekend, uploaded my profile last night, and woke up to messages like this today 😊

Sep 13, 2025

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Ophelia B

I was reluctant to invest in Magnetic Dating Lab because of the cost, but it was SO worth it. It completely transformed my approach to dating—I feel calmer, more confident, and equipped with practical tools to navigate relationships. Her coaching goes beyond advice; she teaches you how to think critically, set healthy boundaries, and communicate openly. The MDL modules offer deep self-work alongside actionable strategies, and what I’ve learned has improved not just my dating life but also my friendships, family relationships, and professional interactions. The group calls are another game-changer to add "real-life" nuance, making everything even more applicable. MDL is 300% worth it! I’m beyond happy I enrolled in MDL. If you’re on the fence about working with Kelsey—do it.

Aug 22, 2025

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