"I can't even describe it. I feel all this weight and all this pressure has lifted off my shoulders. It's okay to be me."
"I ended up finding a girlfriend."
Thomas
"I got a new partner with the newly found confidence, healthy egoism and strength gained."
I came out of a really abusive relationship with a woman I considered to be my dream woman. Not only was she abusive, but I lacked the personality and made some bad decisions during the relationship. I thought I would never have a truly nice relationship like some of my friends around me. That's when I decided to start a half-year coaching session with Oliver. We had weekly sessions in which Oliver gave me new insights, homework to reflect on myself, and we set the target to find a truly lovely relationship. We worked on overcoming my last relationship and my "nice guy" problems, which were also present in previous relationships (which all failed). I learned that if it is not me standing up for myself, then nobody is. I became way more egoistic, which made it clear to other people in my close circle, which was sometimes not perceived nicely, but that's the point. I got a new partner with the newly found confidence, healthy egoism and strength gained, and I would never have been able to get into such a truly lovely relationship without the help of Oliver. I recommend him for his structured, analytical, and sharp approach. He knows what he is talking about, and he is worth every penny. Thanks, Oliver!
Mark
Working with Oliver has given me a framework for living according to my values, and for that I will always be deeply grateful. I came to realize through our work together that I had spent much of my life being reflexive, constantly monitoring the people and circumstances around me, trying to anticipate what others needed or wanted from me, and adapting myself accordingly. I had become disconnected from my own feelings and needs. Rather than asking myself what I believed, what I valued, or what I wanted, I was often focused on what I needed to do to feel safe, accepted, or secure. My work with Oliver has fundamentally changed that. Oliver gave me practical tools to understand what I am feeling, identify what I need and care about, and, perhaps most importantly, learn how to articulate those feelings and needs, both to myself and to the people in my life. He has helped me understand that my values are not something I need to compromise in order to maintain relationships or earn the approval of others. Some of the most meaningful breakthroughs have come from the way Oliver has helped me work through my triggers. He creates a genuine sense of psychological safety: supporting me without judgment, helping me understand what is happening beneath my reactions, and affirming my inherent value while teaching me how to affirm that value for myself. As a result, I feel more connected to myself, more confident in what I believe and need, and better equipped to show up authentically in my relationships. I am learning that confidence isn’t about controlling how others respond to me; it comes from knowing who I am, understanding what matters to me, and being willing to honor those things. I would recommend Oliver wholeheartedly. His combination of compassion, practical insight, and concrete tools has helped me see myself and my life differently. He hasn’t simply helped me navigate individual challenges- he has helped me develop a framework for understanding and supporting myself that I can carry forward. I am beyond grateful for what Oliver has helped me define, understand, and ultimately see in myself. His impact on my life is something I will always carry with me.
Philip Astin
Oliver's work has impacted my life tremendously

I was having issues mainly with assertiveness and people pleasing and felt my life wasn't my own. 


I watched one of Oliver's Youtube videos about the subject and that immediately resonated with me and I got in touch with him. 


Oliver's work has impacted my life tremendously and now I am looking forward to a bright future rather than one filled with trepidation. 


I've managed to improve my social skills and even had a go at public speaking! Oliver's been absolutely brilliant to work with, he's easy to talk to and genuinely cares about how you're getting on. 


Our chats have made a big difference, he's great at listening, knows when to push me and left me feeling better about myself after each hourly session. 


I'd happily recommend him to anyone.

Vishal
Data Engineer - Citadel Hedge Fund
The experience has had a big impact on my life

I started coaching with Oliver because I could feel myself repeating the same patterns, especially around people-pleasing and needing validation. 


Once I realised this, I knew it was important to understand where it was really coming from instead of just managing the symptoms. 


The experience has had a big impact on my life. 


Oliver creates a space that feels safe but also challenging. If you do the work Oliver will help you uncover what’s really driving your behaviour and where it’s rooted. 


A big breakthrough came when I realised my constant need to prove myself wasn’t really about work or success. 


It was about seeking the approval I didn’t get when I was younger. That insight freed me to start changing the way I show up. 


Since then, I’ve noticed I’m more confident in myself, I set boundaries more clearly, and I don’t feel like I have to over-explain or over-give just to be accepted. 


I’d recommend coaching with Oliver to anyone who feels stuck in old patterns and is ready to actually do the deeper work. 


It’s not easy, but it’s 100% changed my life for the better!

Harrison Snow
Lead Designer at Memrise
I am a totally different Man thanks to his support
I joined one of Oliver’s Mens Groups in a time of real difficulty in my life. After 6 months I am a totally different Man thanks to his support. Oliver has a unique gift for identifying what’s true and getting right to it, which is where the breakthroughs happen. I have had numerous comments from colleagues and friends saying I carry myself differently, seem more confident and even look taller. This is all thanks to Oliver’s support and I couldn’t recommend working with him enough.
Mathew
Definitely contact him if you want to see positive change!

Working with Oliver has truly been a great experience that has taught me so much about myself. 


I reached out to Oliver to help me understand how to no longer be controlled by my 'nice guy' persona, embrace my masculinity in a healthy way and help me in my dating life. 

 

Throughout the last 12 weeks, I gained better insight and clarity into certain behaviours relating to the 'nice guy' in me, the inner shame I had towards my thoughts and feelings and my inner rage towards certain people. 


It also helped me to get in touch with the darker sides of me and Oliver helped me recognise how tapping into that side can unlock my full potential. 


Whilst 'talk therapy' helped me in mapping my emotions out and getting me to be more open, Oliver's coaching took these learnings to the next level by giving me more insight that I didn't have, as well as giving me clear actions every week that I could follow to help me feel more confident and comfortable in my own skin. 


I absolutely would recommend Oliver's coaching. 


He's super cool and strikes a great balance between empathy and being upfront. 


He always wants the best for his clients and it really shows in our weekly sessions. 


Definitely contact him if you want to see positive change!

Dan
Senior Lecturer
I'd recommend working with Oliver to anyone

Working with Oliver was exactly what I needed after losing my confidence when a bad breakup brought a lot of old trauma to the surface. 


Through his 12 week programme, I was able to get to the root of some of the limiting beliefs that had been holding me back, and start working to fix them. 


 This was for me the difference between seeing a therapist & working with Oliver: with therapy, it always seemed like an emotionally draining process with little to show for it at the end other than affirmations I didn't truly believe in. 


Oliver's coaching resonated with me far more because I found it very forward-facing & focused on helping me take practical steps towards where I wanted to be. 


One of these was to get comfortable with my core beliefs and values, and stop looking to other people (particularly partners) for approval & affirmation of my self-worth. 


It's not just about identifying the man you want to be, it's about becoming him through consistent positive action & forward momentum. 


I'd recommend working with Oliver to anyone. 


He has a deep understanding of psychology & inner work, but is also a great guy to talk to on a personal level to help support you through any challenges you have in breaking through those sticking points. 


Over the course of 12 weeks his support helped me get over my depression, get back out there on the dating scene having successes in my personal & professional life, and get back to becoming the best possible version of myself.

Isaac
Co-founder at Story IQ
Oliver possesses the Goldilocks 'just right' balance

I came to Oliver having done one year of 'talk therapy' that, while enlightening, didn't result in any meaningful change to the way I was dragging my feet through life. 


Through working with Oliver, I discovered more about the patterns of thinking, mindsets and addictions that were holding me back. 


Oliver possesses the Goldilocks 'just right' balance of psychology, philosophy, insight, empathy and 'kick up the arse' goal setting/accountability that men need to move forward powerfully in their life. 


I wouldn't hesitate to recommend him to my closest friends.

Quincy
My experience with Oliver has been life-changing

I reached out to Oliver to help me with my social anxiety and people pleasing. 


My experience with Oliver has been life changing he helped me find the root cause of my problems and gave me the tools to work through them. 


It felt easy to talk to him about my struggles because he’s been through these issues himself and he cares about your growth. 


Working together helped me realize my problems were not as big as they seemed. 


In a few weeks I went barely speaking to people to being the person that started conversations and conquering fears like going to the gym. 


Thanks to Oliver I am able to set healthier boundaries in my friendships and relationships along with more rewarding social life. 


I’d recommend Oliver’s coaching to anyone looking to improve their lives for the better. 


You wish you’d done it sooner!

Edward
Business Analyst
Oliver helped me become more authentic in my social interactions

Oliver helped me become more authentic in my social interactions, and that change has made a profound difference in my life. 


I’ve noticed that people treat me with more respect and I no longer feel like I’m constantly at the mercy of others. 


I highly recommend Oliver’s coaching to anyone dealing with social anxiety or feeling stuck in inauthentic patterns.

Luke Westbrook-Manhattan
I wholeheartedly recommend Oliver to anyone ready to do deep, transformative work

I was initially drawn to work with Oliver because of the courage he demonstrated in stepping into the cage as a fighter. 


That level of commitment and willingness to face fear head-on deeply resonated with me—it was something I admired and was interested in exploring myself. 


Since beginning coaching with Oliver, the impact on my life has been profound. I feel more confident, grounded, and I’ve developed a stronger sense of routine and structure than I had before. 


The way I show up in the world has completely shifted. One of the most powerful breakthroughs came through the inner child work we did together. 


It wasn’t always easy—some of the insights were tough to face—but they were necessary. That work helped me understand the roots of my behaviour, the modelling I’d received in childhood, and the emotional needs I had buried for years. 


 As a result, I’m now more confident in how I communicate and advocate for myself. I’ve seen real changes in my relationships—more honesty, respect, and clear boundaries. I have a deeper understanding of who I am, what I value, and what I will and won’t accept in my life. 


Oliver is an outstanding coach and someone I now consider a friend. He met me where I was at and has supported me through some radical life changes with presence, strength, and insight. 


I’m genuinely grateful for our work together, and I look forward to our remaining sessions. I wholeheartedly recommend Oliver to anyone ready to do deep, transformative work with someone who truly walks the walk.

"I can't even describe it. I feel all this weight and all this pressure has lifted off my shoulders. It's okay to be me."
"I ended up finding a girlfriend."
Thomas
"I got a new partner with the newly found confidence, healthy egoism and strength gained."
I came out of a really abusive relationship with a woman I considered to be my dream woman. Not only was she abusive, but I lacked the personality and made some bad decisions during the relationship. I thought I would never have a truly nice relationship like some of my friends around me. That's when I decided to start a half-year coaching session with Oliver. We had weekly sessions in which Oliver gave me new insights, homework to reflect on myself, and we set the target to find a truly lovely relationship. We worked on overcoming my last relationship and my "nice guy" problems, which were also present in previous relationships (which all failed). I learned that if it is not me standing up for myself, then nobody is. I became way more egoistic, which made it clear to other people in my close circle, which was sometimes not perceived nicely, but that's the point. I got a new partner with the newly found confidence, healthy egoism and strength gained, and I would never have been able to get into such a truly lovely relationship without the help of Oliver. I recommend him for his structured, analytical, and sharp approach. He knows what he is talking about, and he is worth every penny. Thanks, Oliver!
Mark
Working with Oliver has given me a framework for living according to my values, and for that I will always be deeply grateful. I came to realize through our work together that I had spent much of my life being reflexive, constantly monitoring the people and circumstances around me, trying to anticipate what others needed or wanted from me, and adapting myself accordingly. I had become disconnected from my own feelings and needs. Rather than asking myself what I believed, what I valued, or what I wanted, I was often focused on what I needed to do to feel safe, accepted, or secure. My work with Oliver has fundamentally changed that. Oliver gave me practical tools to understand what I am feeling, identify what I need and care about, and, perhaps most importantly, learn how to articulate those feelings and needs, both to myself and to the people in my life. He has helped me understand that my values are not something I need to compromise in order to maintain relationships or earn the approval of others. Some of the most meaningful breakthroughs have come from the way Oliver has helped me work through my triggers. He creates a genuine sense of psychological safety: supporting me without judgment, helping me understand what is happening beneath my reactions, and affirming my inherent value while teaching me how to affirm that value for myself. As a result, I feel more connected to myself, more confident in what I believe and need, and better equipped to show up authentically in my relationships. I am learning that confidence isn’t about controlling how others respond to me; it comes from knowing who I am, understanding what matters to me, and being willing to honor those things. I would recommend Oliver wholeheartedly. His combination of compassion, practical insight, and concrete tools has helped me see myself and my life differently. He hasn’t simply helped me navigate individual challenges- he has helped me develop a framework for understanding and supporting myself that I can carry forward. I am beyond grateful for what Oliver has helped me define, understand, and ultimately see in myself. His impact on my life is something I will always carry with me.
Philip Astin
Oliver's work has impacted my life tremendously

I was having issues mainly with assertiveness and people pleasing and felt my life wasn't my own. 


I watched one of Oliver's Youtube videos about the subject and that immediately resonated with me and I got in touch with him. 


Oliver's work has impacted my life tremendously and now I am looking forward to a bright future rather than one filled with trepidation. 


I've managed to improve my social skills and even had a go at public speaking! Oliver's been absolutely brilliant to work with, he's easy to talk to and genuinely cares about how you're getting on. 


Our chats have made a big difference, he's great at listening, knows when to push me and left me feeling better about myself after each hourly session. 


I'd happily recommend him to anyone.

Vishal
Data Engineer - Citadel Hedge Fund
The experience has had a big impact on my life

I started coaching with Oliver because I could feel myself repeating the same patterns, especially around people-pleasing and needing validation. 


Once I realised this, I knew it was important to understand where it was really coming from instead of just managing the symptoms. 


The experience has had a big impact on my life. 


Oliver creates a space that feels safe but also challenging. If you do the work Oliver will help you uncover what’s really driving your behaviour and where it’s rooted. 


A big breakthrough came when I realised my constant need to prove myself wasn’t really about work or success. 


It was about seeking the approval I didn’t get when I was younger. That insight freed me to start changing the way I show up. 


Since then, I’ve noticed I’m more confident in myself, I set boundaries more clearly, and I don’t feel like I have to over-explain or over-give just to be accepted. 


I’d recommend coaching with Oliver to anyone who feels stuck in old patterns and is ready to actually do the deeper work. 


It’s not easy, but it’s 100% changed my life for the better!

Harrison Snow
Lead Designer at Memrise
I am a totally different Man thanks to his support
I joined one of Oliver’s Mens Groups in a time of real difficulty in my life. After 6 months I am a totally different Man thanks to his support. Oliver has a unique gift for identifying what’s true and getting right to it, which is where the breakthroughs happen. I have had numerous comments from colleagues and friends saying I carry myself differently, seem more confident and even look taller. This is all thanks to Oliver’s support and I couldn’t recommend working with him enough.
Mathew
Definitely contact him if you want to see positive change!

Working with Oliver has truly been a great experience that has taught me so much about myself. 


I reached out to Oliver to help me understand how to no longer be controlled by my 'nice guy' persona, embrace my masculinity in a healthy way and help me in my dating life. 

 

Throughout the last 12 weeks, I gained better insight and clarity into certain behaviours relating to the 'nice guy' in me, the inner shame I had towards my thoughts and feelings and my inner rage towards certain people. 


It also helped me to get in touch with the darker sides of me and Oliver helped me recognise how tapping into that side can unlock my full potential. 


Whilst 'talk therapy' helped me in mapping my emotions out and getting me to be more open, Oliver's coaching took these learnings to the next level by giving me more insight that I didn't have, as well as giving me clear actions every week that I could follow to help me feel more confident and comfortable in my own skin. 


I absolutely would recommend Oliver's coaching. 


He's super cool and strikes a great balance between empathy and being upfront. 


He always wants the best for his clients and it really shows in our weekly sessions. 


Definitely contact him if you want to see positive change!

Dan
Senior Lecturer
I'd recommend working with Oliver to anyone

Working with Oliver was exactly what I needed after losing my confidence when a bad breakup brought a lot of old trauma to the surface. 


Through his 12 week programme, I was able to get to the root of some of the limiting beliefs that had been holding me back, and start working to fix them. 


 This was for me the difference between seeing a therapist & working with Oliver: with therapy, it always seemed like an emotionally draining process with little to show for it at the end other than affirmations I didn't truly believe in. 


Oliver's coaching resonated with me far more because I found it very forward-facing & focused on helping me take practical steps towards where I wanted to be. 


One of these was to get comfortable with my core beliefs and values, and stop looking to other people (particularly partners) for approval & affirmation of my self-worth. 


It's not just about identifying the man you want to be, it's about becoming him through consistent positive action & forward momentum. 


I'd recommend working with Oliver to anyone. 


He has a deep understanding of psychology & inner work, but is also a great guy to talk to on a personal level to help support you through any challenges you have in breaking through those sticking points. 


Over the course of 12 weeks his support helped me get over my depression, get back out there on the dating scene having successes in my personal & professional life, and get back to becoming the best possible version of myself.

Isaac
Co-founder at Story IQ
Oliver possesses the Goldilocks 'just right' balance

I came to Oliver having done one year of 'talk therapy' that, while enlightening, didn't result in any meaningful change to the way I was dragging my feet through life. 


Through working with Oliver, I discovered more about the patterns of thinking, mindsets and addictions that were holding me back. 


Oliver possesses the Goldilocks 'just right' balance of psychology, philosophy, insight, empathy and 'kick up the arse' goal setting/accountability that men need to move forward powerfully in their life. 


I wouldn't hesitate to recommend him to my closest friends.

Quincy
My experience with Oliver has been life-changing

I reached out to Oliver to help me with my social anxiety and people pleasing. 


My experience with Oliver has been life changing he helped me find the root cause of my problems and gave me the tools to work through them. 


It felt easy to talk to him about my struggles because he’s been through these issues himself and he cares about your growth. 


Working together helped me realize my problems were not as big as they seemed. 


In a few weeks I went barely speaking to people to being the person that started conversations and conquering fears like going to the gym. 


Thanks to Oliver I am able to set healthier boundaries in my friendships and relationships along with more rewarding social life. 


I’d recommend Oliver’s coaching to anyone looking to improve their lives for the better. 


You wish you’d done it sooner!

Edward
Business Analyst
Oliver helped me become more authentic in my social interactions

Oliver helped me become more authentic in my social interactions, and that change has made a profound difference in my life. 


I’ve noticed that people treat me with more respect and I no longer feel like I’m constantly at the mercy of others. 


I highly recommend Oliver’s coaching to anyone dealing with social anxiety or feeling stuck in inauthentic patterns.

Luke Westbrook-Manhattan
I wholeheartedly recommend Oliver to anyone ready to do deep, transformative work

I was initially drawn to work with Oliver because of the courage he demonstrated in stepping into the cage as a fighter. 


That level of commitment and willingness to face fear head-on deeply resonated with me—it was something I admired and was interested in exploring myself. 


Since beginning coaching with Oliver, the impact on my life has been profound. I feel more confident, grounded, and I’ve developed a stronger sense of routine and structure than I had before. 


The way I show up in the world has completely shifted. One of the most powerful breakthroughs came through the inner child work we did together. 


It wasn’t always easy—some of the insights were tough to face—but they were necessary. That work helped me understand the roots of my behaviour, the modelling I’d received in childhood, and the emotional needs I had buried for years. 


 As a result, I’m now more confident in how I communicate and advocate for myself. I’ve seen real changes in my relationships—more honesty, respect, and clear boundaries. I have a deeper understanding of who I am, what I value, and what I will and won’t accept in my life. 


Oliver is an outstanding coach and someone I now consider a friend. He met me where I was at and has supported me through some radical life changes with presence, strength, and insight. 


I’m genuinely grateful for our work together, and I look forward to our remaining sessions. I wholeheartedly recommend Oliver to anyone ready to do deep, transformative work with someone who truly walks the walk.

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