MashaAllah, a really great sharing from Zahra and James! Lots of misconceptions cleared and an exciting reminder to put priorities back in the right order. May Allah bless this beautiful couple and their family.

Having and knowing the correct question to ask in order to get the most from an interaction with a potential spouse feels empowering. No more wasting time on irrevelant small talk that leads to no true discovery. If you have difficulty drawing out the important points in conversation, this books is for you.

It’s amazing the amount of work that has gone to put these questions together, its well thought out, all in one and effective. We often have questions in mind to ask the other but don’t quite know how to frame it or better still forget. Using the questions guided me to understand and find out what the other person’s intention and perspective was and there you can see if both of you are truly aligned. I recommend this to all Muslims and non-Muslims alike, and its so worth doing your research for a lifetime decision and this book truly helps, thumbs up :)

A concise and practical book that helps you question your thought patterns. The bonus workshop further reinforces this questioning and reframing of self-limiting beliefs that we have been accustomed to growing up. You're left feeling empowered. A recommended read for everyone.

A very informative read with a variety of questions to suit the reader and provide some thought provoking discussions as well as understanding yourself better. I would recommend this book to anyone on their search to find a spouse!

This books hits all the key areas I need to focus on with a potential partner. I'm happy it touches on areas I am especially concerned about like mental health. I did not think it would be addressed but it is. Zahra and James address all the issues needed to have a healthy awareness with a romantic interest. Thank you for the book. I hope you publish it.

Asselamu alejkum wa rahmetullahi wa barakatuhu. My biggest take a way was the questions that I used as reflection to understand myself and my needs. I would like to emphasise that I have been assigned to the boundless successes course and I have spend a lot of time with personal development, psychology and so on in my past, however those two has been the missing pieces in the puzzle 😅. I can recommend it to anyone regardless in which martial status you are, in marriage or not. As well as the boundless success from James. Thank you both, Zahra and James. I am grateful to get to know both of you. Weselam

This book was pretty eye opening and helpful as someone who is looking to get married. Having the various topics of questions to ask is really helpful when you are really trying to set your priorities and non negotiables. I wish this book was sold in stores and more people had the opportunity to really think about these topics before getting married.

This book has helped me realize who I am. I answer these questions for myself and reread them to know what kind of person I am at the moment which will help me align to the person I wish to be with. This has been tremendously helpful!

Really helpful guidance on what to ask in the courtship period. Extensive list of questions, covering different aspects of life. Very useful introduction, highlighting the importance of listening. I would highly recommend others get the e-book.

Great resource to review with your partner during the courtship process and well organized! I think getting your partner involved (and hopefully he/she is also engaged in the process) will show you if 1) that person is serious 2) you are logically looking at the situation and not just looking through “rose-colored glasses.”

This program helped in clearing clouds of doubts Be realistic in your expectations Everyone who ready to work on thier on themselves and thier thought process related to marraige.

I've watched Drop The Love Struggle a few times now and every time I watch it I learn something new! There is so much depth in the program and I still get tears watching it when I realize I have something else I need to process. It taught me to how to view Allah, myself, and my situation in a more positive light. Everyone would benefit from this program, over and over again, as this program gives no matter where you are in your life! Zahra is also an incredible teacher!

My first reaction: "OH MY GAWD! THIS IS EXACTLYYY WHAT I NEEDED!! SHE'S SEEING RIGHT INTO ME!!!" I mean, honestly, thorough it all I kept feeling you were talking to me and me alone. I had been putting limitations to my own self without even realising so. I had been making dream duas regarding my life partner, doing istekhara, telling myself "Allah swt will not let any harm come my way inshaAllah" and yet I'd look at the men and realize "there are no good men out there". Perhaps I need to find someone abroad with a mindset matching mine. I'd bring myself up and then I'd be told that I have unrealistic expectations. I'd try to stay strong through this but eventually when so many proposals would go downhill, I'd wonder perhaps I really am a little unrealistic. There's no such man out there. I hadn't realized that I had, actually, been constantly digging out that seedling time and again to check if it's grown yet thus hampering it's growth! Jazakillah khairan kaseeran fid daarain sister Zahra! I can't thank you enough for this. You're doing an awesome job! P.S. You've quite literally alleviated my anxiety by helping me "drop the love struggle" and I can feel butterflies of excitement knowing there's "the one" for me out there just as I want. Note: Please don't use my email ID when publishing this testimonial.

The program was really amazing! It really gave me a whole new way of thinking. I been stuck in the mindset of back of forth maybe marriage isn’t meant for me but now I plan to be committed that marriage is for me and Allah wants me to happy. I am also committed to tying my camel but not over do it. I plan to have better trust in Allah instead of doing too much actions which is making me anxious. I been feeling burnt out on the dating apps but these videos have motivated me to try again. Alhamdulillah

The program helped so much in very simple ways. In short, I was reminded of who and what I am, which is loved by Allah. If I am loved by Allah, I am worthy of love from any and everyone that I want to get it from. As a result, I felt affirmed by the standards that I've learned to set for myself and have given myself permission to cast a much more narrow net in a specific area of water instead of fishing in the seven seas for a mate. When Zahra said, "It's okay to have a few choices, you only need to find your one person," it echoed something that I learned to tell myself over the past year and it reinvigorated me. My biggest takeway is to remember that while I am worth waiting for and to have patience and discernment, that Allah could just as easily make my dream partner appear unexpectedly and to be open to the miracle. I recommend this to everyone else like me who has gotten caught up in the cycle of online letdowns, busted rishta auntie recommendations, and the ones who got away to remember that love is written for all of us.

This program has helped me realize the most fundamental part of my Faith and that is Tawakkul. Now I know that not every action needs to be taken as we’re over compensating our Trust in Allah SWT but instead we should that which is aligned to our dreams and feels easy. I think this concept can be applied in every aspect of our life and not just marriage. So everyone can take this. Jazak’Allah

Sister Zahra!!!!! I have to say you are immaculate with this reminder of the extent we envision Allah, is the quality of the life we are going to live. I am usually commended for my outlook on life and belief in Allah, however, watching these made me aware that I have a long way to go. I need to step out of duplicity; just because it seems impossible to me, does not mean it cannot happen - especially when I have been guided to make all sorts of dua. Now I relaized I was digging and digging... with worries of how! SubhanAllah! You have no idea how much this has helped me. I am committed to having an amazing and soul nourishing love life that will lead to Firdaus and committed to letting go of how it will happen. This process/concept is so useful and I will apply it to other aspects of my life as well. I always said and believed Allah loves me, but a whole new level of reciprocating that love through having unwavering faith and has been unleashed.

I used to be so obsessed with the idea of "tying my camel" to the point of forcing myself to get into activities that I didn't even like doing. I felt like if I exhausted all options things would move forward. I was getting tired of attracting people I didn't even like the slightest when I was the one to blame for for getting myself into these activities to begin with! The journey of my duah is just as important as what I want to get out of it. I am ready let Allah take care of the parts I don't want to take care of.

I get to watch first 2 videos and i found them really helpful Allahmdulilah. Specially this statement that if you are not seeing what you are believing in that means you are not actually believing in it. And all those question instructors asked are really profound.

Salam, This was a much needed reminder for me. It showed me that I was scared and have been living in victim mode because of not wanting to do the work required. The most uplifting I think was knowing that Allah is the one who will make everything happen I just need to have the faith and trust and do my part. Also knowing that tying the camel doesn't need to be a struggle that it should feel light and easy and put more of my efforts into trusting that Allah is supporting me and will give me the results I want. That the actual test is a test of faith not me having to struggle or live in hardship. Jazak Allah Khair Zahra!

I appreciate the positive and hopeful vibes, energy, and beliefs that Zahra shares in this program. If you are interested in identifying your limiting beliefs and staring them right in the face, this program is certainly for you! I am currently working through this process after having watched the Drop the love struggle videos and it’s not fun, but it’s real and I can feel a deep, strong shift in my body, energy, and realizations/insights. I am grateful to have been exposed to Zahra’s work and wisdom, and I am excited further to work through this process.

The program helped me to see that I was getting in my own way. I learned to not dig up the seed. And I learned that what I want is literally written for me, before I was even born and before I was a name known. Anyone living a life they don’t want or who wants something or needs something that would benefit them and doesn’t know where to start would benefit the most from this program.

It opened my mind. It opened my heart to believe that Allah has so much good written for me Allahumdullilah. I learned that I need to truly see and believe in my core that Allah does want me to get married. I need to believe. This program will help anyone looking to believe in themselves again. Also, any single who has lost hope and are frustrated by the processes of finding spouse. Allahumdullilah.

Wonderful course that’s broken down and straight to the point. I have reviewed it multiple times and takeaway something new every time. It’s a process, be patient and be ready to put in the work!

• Alhamdulillah! The program helped me in dropping the duplicit attitude that I used to have. I had been making du'a for getting married to find a desirable spouse but on the other hand I used to have lots of negative emotions whether it's going to happen for me or not. My surroundings, My hometown which doesn't have so many good practising Muslims used to frighten me to find a suitable match. But, Alhamdulillah ! The program has changed my mindset that " No matter what , Whoever Allah has destined for me will come to marry me in this place". • One thing that helped me is " Commit to the love I want, Commit to my dreams" I shouldn't be going back & forth & commit to having a loving relationship. • Anybody who has been struggling in their search of spouse after having tried different avenues still not able to see the desired results & wants to know the right approach of finding a spouse & how to make this journey stress-free will benefit In Shaa Allah.

This program helped answer the deep introspective questions that journaling and therapy couldn't help answer! I strongly recommend it enhance your life and take that next step to live life happily as you deserve. Don't wait, you are worth it!

This program helped me to overcome negative feelings about marriage and to boost my confidence level. I have learnt to open my heart to the limitless love and blessings from Allah. People who are trying to get married, but stuck in the process, (Like myself) would benefit most from the program.

I wasn't new to these concepts as I explored them with secular sources but SubhanAllah I was blown away. I sent it to sooooo many friends! I watched it before I went to a wedding and I was really soaking into your vibe. I will no longer pull out my seeds inshAllah! Anyone who has tried everything AND can have an open mind to try something new since nothing else worked will greatly benefit inshAllah.

Drop the Love Struggle taught me how to connect visualizations and positive emotions to my practice of having a good expectation of God. I immediately felt a shift and noticed how people respond to me in a much more open and positive way, when I feel hopeful and positive. I was finally able to break through the mental block I had about visualizing my future spouse, and my overall mood has improved, alḥamdulillāh. I didn't realize I needed someone to give me permission to feel hopeful! I think the most important thing I can do in my marriage search is to keep visualizing meeting my spouse, feeling the overwhelming sense of gratitude and joy, and thanking God. I am also applying what I learned in this program to other areas of my life. One unexpected result of allowing myself to feel unbridled hope and to believe that my prayers *will* be answered is that I feel closer to God. Because of that, I think everyone could benefit from this program! I really appreciate you, Zahra & James, for your important work. May God reward you abundantly for it Bārak Allāh fīkum

It was really good to reaffirm my faith and tawakkul in Allah - to feel reassured and work though my thinking patterns. Definitely needed for all those ‘struggling’ to find a spouse. It’s not so much of a struggle but a change in thinking to refining the journey! Thanks for sharing this.

It’s Zahras energy and vulnerability sharing key parts of her transformative moments. She’s relatable, loving in her teaching, instills a burst of faith and feeling like anything is possible just by witnessing her conviction. It just sinks into the heart. I have learned that marriage IS indeed written for me and Allah has already told me that in the Quran, I just need to have faith and walk in faith, that when there is nothing in sight that’s when true belief is confirmed. Allah wants me to believe the idiosyncratic love that I desire is available to me, he wants me to be firm in my desire so that when I see it I know it is mine. He’s rooting for me. Can’t say enough how much faith this course AND lifestyle of dua have been for me. I have understood a new level of faith. Zahra and James are hidden gems truly truly question how unbelievably blessed I could be learning from them. By being introduced to their content, I feel especially chosen. May Allah continue to bless them abundantly

Dear Zahra, Assalamu Alaikum, Finally I am getting married next friday, September 8th. The wedding reception will be on October 7th.. Please pray for us

I’m only on the 2nd video, but I had to leave a review already! I know I’m not 100% ready for marriage right now, but these videos have helped me confront and bring to light so many things I didnt even know I had to work on within me. I’ve done so many workshops, classes etc. in other mindset/manifestation areas, but if you’re muslim I highly recommend dropping ALL of it and learning from Zahra. Its literally the missing link I’ve been searching for these past few years. Plus these videos helps you face things in all areas of life too so Im glad I bought it! Off to do Homework #2 :)

Helped me by realize that I need to keep my trust and faith in Allah I learned I need to do a better job of showing up as the person I am looking to marry Men would most benefit and those that are serious about getting married!

Salam alaikum! I really love the woman that you are Zahra and I believe that Allah has chosen you for this. I could feel something shifting in my life as I watched the videos and internalized them. I believe in what you are saying. It feels like it is all things I already know deep inside me, but I keep putting obstacles around living it out. I have realized how much of my struggle was really me. Not the way I looked, not my life circumstance, not any outside factor. But the state of my heart. Allah wants us to strive for the best and maybe that could be a reason why we aren’t getting what we want, that we want less! Not that Allah wants us to settle. And sometimes we push a good thing away because of our suspicions, instead of working on our self to have a clear view. I have learned to come with compassion and generosity but also come full well aware that you deserve…something so so good 🥰 trusting Allah is the key, true tawakul is the key ❤️ Alhamdulilah.Thank you Zahra!

This program helped me have tawakkul and patience in Allah’s plan for me. I need to strengthen my faith within myself and stop worrying about what is going to come and when. I learned that I need ti first work on myself and make improvements throughout my daily life before I am ready to search for someone. I think anyone can be benefit from this program, whether you’re searching, engaged, or already married.

I think the biggest gift this program can bring you, is more closeness to Allah. You are taking an active step to work on yourself in a world which constantly confuses us. So whilst this is a program for love and is amazing for that, it also brings you benefits all around and it makes you embody the fact that Allah loves you. In a nutshell, this program is awesome, Zahra is awesome and you should take part in this program to live in your awesomeness. This program would benefit anyone who is seeking a lifelong partner, as it addresses various obstacles to that, that you may not even realise. Group coaching can be powerful as well as when one person says something, it might stimulate something in your own mind. Zahra mashallah is amazing at answering your questions, figuring out your blockers and mashallah coaching you to be in a more enlightened, happy and feel good place. Highly recommended program! Life is short, let’s make our lives better, take this program :)

The Confidence in Love course has encouraged deep self-reflection in me, helping to understand my own emotions, fears, and desires. The weekly calls with Zahra and the group help build self-esteem and confidence, and it’s a good opportunity to share experiences and get advice in real time. This is a good course for people struggle with vulnerability. It will help address these fears and help you develop a mindset that embraces love and connection. Being in a group setting provide a sense of community and support. Sharing experiences with others validates my feelings and makes the journey to find love more hopeful.

MashaAllah, a really great sharing from Zahra and James! Lots of misconceptions cleared and an exciting reminder to put priorities back in the right order. May Allah bless this beautiful couple and their family.

Having and knowing the correct question to ask in order to get the most from an interaction with a potential spouse feels empowering. No more wasting time on irrevelant small talk that leads to no true discovery. If you have difficulty drawing out the important points in conversation, this books is for you.

It’s amazing the amount of work that has gone to put these questions together, its well thought out, all in one and effective. We often have questions in mind to ask the other but don’t quite know how to frame it or better still forget. Using the questions guided me to understand and find out what the other person’s intention and perspective was and there you can see if both of you are truly aligned. I recommend this to all Muslims and non-Muslims alike, and its so worth doing your research for a lifetime decision and this book truly helps, thumbs up :)

A concise and practical book that helps you question your thought patterns. The bonus workshop further reinforces this questioning and reframing of self-limiting beliefs that we have been accustomed to growing up. You're left feeling empowered. A recommended read for everyone.

A very informative read with a variety of questions to suit the reader and provide some thought provoking discussions as well as understanding yourself better. I would recommend this book to anyone on their search to find a spouse!

This books hits all the key areas I need to focus on with a potential partner. I'm happy it touches on areas I am especially concerned about like mental health. I did not think it would be addressed but it is. Zahra and James address all the issues needed to have a healthy awareness with a romantic interest. Thank you for the book. I hope you publish it.

Asselamu alejkum wa rahmetullahi wa barakatuhu. My biggest take a way was the questions that I used as reflection to understand myself and my needs. I would like to emphasise that I have been assigned to the boundless successes course and I have spend a lot of time with personal development, psychology and so on in my past, however those two has been the missing pieces in the puzzle 😅. I can recommend it to anyone regardless in which martial status you are, in marriage or not. As well as the boundless success from James. Thank you both, Zahra and James. I am grateful to get to know both of you. Weselam

This book was pretty eye opening and helpful as someone who is looking to get married. Having the various topics of questions to ask is really helpful when you are really trying to set your priorities and non negotiables. I wish this book was sold in stores and more people had the opportunity to really think about these topics before getting married.

This book has helped me realize who I am. I answer these questions for myself and reread them to know what kind of person I am at the moment which will help me align to the person I wish to be with. This has been tremendously helpful!

Really helpful guidance on what to ask in the courtship period. Extensive list of questions, covering different aspects of life. Very useful introduction, highlighting the importance of listening. I would highly recommend others get the e-book.

Great resource to review with your partner during the courtship process and well organized! I think getting your partner involved (and hopefully he/she is also engaged in the process) will show you if 1) that person is serious 2) you are logically looking at the situation and not just looking through “rose-colored glasses.”

This program helped in clearing clouds of doubts Be realistic in your expectations Everyone who ready to work on thier on themselves and thier thought process related to marraige.