My name is Daan, a 26 year old male from the Netherlands. As I had trouble with jealousy, anxious attachment style and codependency I started to watch Bene’s youtube videos, and learned a lot from them. Then I decided to book a call with Bene to see how he would be able to help me. I already knew a lot about these problems and about myself, but I could not seem to implement the advice I found on the internet. I was often stuck in a spiral of negative thoughts as my girlfriend went out to do something without me, and I had a lot of trouble dealing with conflict. We talked a lot and I found a direct click with Bene as he was very clear and helpful in his way of speaking, he told me he has made this cohort for guys like me who wanted to change. So the biggest reason for me to join the cohort at first was to build a better relationship with my girlfriend but at first I had my doubts if this would really help me. I lost a lot of money in the past on bullshit courses (mostly to make money online) but as I discussed this with my close friend and family, I thought the best investment to make is in myself. And what if this would help me with my problems, what is the value of money compared to knowledge? So I decided to do it, and as soon as I started the program and got to meet the other guys, I found out very quickly that the priority was to change the relationship with myself. I started to learn so much more about myself, and also started to connect with the other guys. As we've all been so open and vulnerable, those guys started to become more like friends and I looked forward to every call to learn new things together! Now looking back I don’t have any regrets on joining this cohort, you have to keep in mind that this journey is a lifelong one and you will get better everyday, as long as you put in the work and follow Bene’s guidance. And to this day I am still not 100% where I want to be, but I know if I keep following this path of growth I will become the man I want to be, with full confidence and a loving relationship with myself and my girlfriend! Who will soon be my wife : ) So if you are unsure about working with Bene, just know he is not a magician who can put a spell on you that will change your life. But he will definitely teach you how to get on the right path of growth so you can, step by step, become the man you always wanted to be!

Bene is sincere and this is the quality that I value. In the age of cheezy alpha bros and insecure redpill manipulators Bene stands out as somebody with integrity and openness. I had a rocky relationship and my goal was to improve my emotional maturity and how to lead properly. A few months later, my girlfriend moved in and I got to the point I wanted to get to. I am happy. Do not expect everything to be done and decided for you by Bene. Expect to be lead by him to a place where you take responsibility for who you are and what you do.

Hi, my name is Adam. I'm 25 years old and from Poland. After five years, my relationship was breaking down—old issues that had remained unchanged kept resurfacing. I finally decided it was time to take real action and try to fix them. This was my first time working with a mentor. I had tried therapy in the past but always felt dissatisfied with the outcome. What drew me to Bene was his strong advocacy for taking accountability and actively working toward your goals. In contrast, therapy often felt passive to me—I didn’t feel like it was pushing me to become the person I wanted to be. That said, paying a random person on the internet was a big fear of mine. But something about Bene’s approach resonated with me, and the idea of being surrounded by like-minded individuals—people striving to become the best versions of themselves—was incredibly motivating. I knew deep down that I wanted to do this, but the financial commitment scared me. Looking back, it was the right decision. Now, I’m in a position where I’m much more self-aware, better educated, and surrounded by new friends who share the same goals of self-development. It’s just the beginning of my journey, but it’s been a strong start, and I feel privileged to have shared this experience with everyone in this cohort. Bene is truly genuine. If you feel a positive connection with him, trust that—it’s real, and it’s invaluable. If you’re comfortable opening up to him like you would with a close friend, then this will be worth your time and money. Beyond that, the communities he is building are incredibly valuable. These people will hold you accountable to being your best self—there’s no room for hiding here. And that’s powerful, especially if you tend to shy away from challenges when things get tough. One quote Bene often shares is: "The progress you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding." Ask yourself—is working on yourself, sitting with your thoughts and emotions, and opening up to vulnerability, what you’ve been avoiding? Then this is exactly where you need to be.

Hello, my name is Jakub. I'm 26 years old, and I'm from Czechia. Long story short, I went through a rough breakup two months before joining the mentorship. I was struggling with severe depression when YouTube’s algorithm led me to Bene’s channel. His content stood out from other relationship advice channels, and since this was my second difficult breakup, I knew I needed to make a change. That’s why I decided to apply for Bene’s mentorship. At first, I had a lot of doubts. I wondered if he was just trying to make money off me or if he would simply repeat advice from books he had read. But after my first one-on-one call with him, I was pleasantly surprised by his attitude and approach. None of my doubts were confirmed—he was genuinely open to my situation and truly wanted to help. Throughout the cohort, I learned a lot—not just about relationships but also about myself. The experience helped me make crucial and difficult decisions that allowed me to move forward and find peace within myself. I discovered a path I want to follow, and without Bene and the other guys in the cohort, that wouldn’t have been possible. Even though I still have a lot of work ahead of me, I finally feel like I’m on the right track and know what I need to do to stay on it. To anyone reading this who has doubts—it’s completely natural. For some, it’s about money; for others, it’s the fear of stepping out of their comfort zone. For me, it was both. But those doubts quickly faded. Bene is a great guy with a wealth of wisdom, and his dedication to helping men like you and me is truly inspiring. If you’re considering it, I encourage you to give it a try. For me, it was worth every penny and every minute. On top of that, you’ll meet other guys facing similar challenges, and together, you’ll support each other’s growth. This mentorship has the power to change your life—if you’re willing to change.

My name is Alex, I'm 29 years old and from Berlin. I had the urge to change something when I noticed that the passion in the relationship with my lovely girlfriend started to fade and we were overcome by daily stressors. I wanted to be more grounded and be a better partner, not only to support her, but to have a fulfilling relationship for myself. I knew Bene from his videos, so there wasn't really much doubt that working together with him will be great. Talking to Bene and the group was a great experience - there were many similar-minded guys in situations like mine and we all made large steps to discovering and unleashing our true self in order to become more fulfilled and grounded as a man, which in turn allowed us to become better partners for the people we care about. I'm extremely happy with the wisdom, mindset shifts and new insights that I gained from this. Bene condensed dozens of books and the experience of hundreds of hours of coaching and mentoring into the right steps and questions to achieving more clarity and tranquility. I can recommend his mentorship with my full heart.

Grant, 33, Australia. I was a single man from 21 years old until 33 years old, with my only relationship experiences being very poor. In my 12 years of being single, I learned a lot about life in general, but not about women and relationships, or how to be in one. When I found myself a great woman, and one I knew I wanted to spend my life with, I quickly realized I had a lot to learn about how to be a good partner. I suddenly found myself falling back into old habits, becoming overly anxious about things that I hadn’t in years. I was unaware of things like, how a good woman will test their man’s character to make sure he’s remaining grounded, trustworthy and consistent. Instead, I was taking these tests the way I had in previous relationships – as constant criticism and let myself fall into a bad head space. Part of me knew that there was basic relationship knowledge that I was missing, and that what I was experiencing was normal, I just needed help understanding it. I saw Bene’s videos on Youtube and his advice made perfect sense to me right away. He introduced concepts I’d never heard of, and I knew it was exactly this knowledge I was lacking. When I learned that he was providing mentorship, I had to investigate! From day one, Bene has been awesome to work with. He keeps you very honest, and despite having many men in the group, he still checks in regularly to see how you’re going and if you need any help – texts and video calls! Living in Australia in a very different time zone, and working shift-work, it was near impossible to attend the live sessions, but Bene still made it possible to participate and was always available to offer guidance. Bene’s mentorship was exactly what I needed. His lectures are packed with endless wisdom regarding relationships and the nature of the feminine and masculine. By developing a better understanding of the feminine, I now better understand my partner, and can truly appreciate her to the fullest. I have also developed better communication skills and have greatly improved at approaching hard conversations. I now also understand my role as the masculine in the relationship, and what my partner truly wants from me and how I can deliver it. I am now much more calm and happier, and despite avoiding relationships for 12 years, can safely say I am now thriving in one. If you were to ever feel unsure about signing up for Bene’s mentorship, I can assure you Bene has the knowledge you’re after, and he delivers it in an honest and easy-to-digest way. He checks in on you and makes sure you keep up to date, so there’s no excuses for not completing it. Just trust the process. If you really want this and you’re willing to do the work, this is the opportunity for you.

Bene is an ally for deep personal change — like all things in life you get out what you put in. This mentorship ultimately ended up reframing the relationship I had with myself and its overspill has leveled up my entire life. 10/10. Thanks Bene!

Hey everyone, my name is Lucas, I’m 21 years old. If you decide to read just one testimonial, make it this one. I found Benny through one Youtube video and decided to put my trust in him and instantly applied for his mentorship. Of course there were doubts at first like "oh another internet guru..." but trust me, Benny actually knows what he is talking about and he practices what he preaches. That he isn't just another online guru was confirmed to me in the discovery call (where you get to know each other and both sides evaluate if you are a fit for the mentorship).  At that time, I was going through a difficult situation. I had lost feelings for my then-girlfriend and knew I needed to end the relationship without dragging it out. I also wanted to understand what went wrong and why I lost feelings for someone who, objectively, was a great partner. During the very first call, I immediately felt we were on the same wavelength. Even before I committed to the program, Benny gave me valuable advice on how to end the relationship respectfully — without knowing whether I would join or pay anything. That already said a lot about his character. We ended up working together for six months (the program is usually three, but due to circumstances on both sides, it extended). Despite this, Benny consistently delivered value throughout the entire time — and still does whenever I reach out. But now the important question... Did the mentorship actually work? The short answer: Yes absolutely! The long answer: It goes far beyond only relationships. You get to understand why things happen and how they are connected, you learn more about your own self/ become more self-aware, you get to know more about the mind and about how to handle certain situations (not just like if a do b but more like if a understand b be c and handle it like d (no dick joke intended here)). Heck I even dare to say that he even helped me to find/ reconnect with my true self through the mentorship. Benny is not only a mentor to me, nowadays I see him more as a friend... a friend who you can actually talk to if you feel down (yes he will even help you if its not at all related to relationships) whom you can send 10-minute voice notes on whatsapp and he actually listens to the whole 10 minutes of your nonsense (and actually says afterwards he enjoys listening to those sometimes deep, sometimes more shallow messages) and actually answers with practical guidance which you can implement instantly. Long story short I would recommend this mentorship to everyone even if they have a healthy relationship. There is so much to be gained from this, it's hard to put into words. If you still aren´t sure if it is right for you, apply for the discovery call, it's completely free, you will get to know Benny and you will realize if the mentorship is for you. But for real, do yourself the favor and apply for it. It changed my life and I'm certain that it will change yours too. I wish you all the best and have fun in the discovery call with Benny (little tip: be honest to him, that's when he is truly able to shine and help you the most). Lucas out

Hi, I’m Milan, 21 years old, and I live in Koblenz – a relatively small and beautiful city in Germany. When I first came across Bene’s videos, I had only been in a relationship with my (now ex-)girlfriend for a few months. During that time, I was under a lot of pressure – mostly pressure I had put on myself because of the relationship. Questions kept piling up, loop after loop opening in my head, without ever closing. I often felt like I wasn’t really present – like I wasn’t fully myself. Bene’s videos gave me a first glimpse that, at least in theory, these loops could be closed. But at that point, I was already in too deep. I kept watching his videos on and off, convincing myself that he was already sharing everything he knew, and that mentoring wouldn’t really add much. I thought that passively consuming his content would be enough. At a particularly low point, I booked a call with him – and followed a gut feeling that told me to go for the mentoring. Since that moment, I’ve gone through so much and experienced such profound change that it honestly feels surreal to realize all of it happened in just a few months. I can only speak from my own experience, but I truly believe that if you feel stuck – in life, in a relationship, or in your own thoughts – this mentoring will first and foremost pull you out of the old mental patterns that keep you trapped. And once that happens, everything else starts changing faster than you’d expect. I’ve been able to work through many fears and inner blocks and have seen real transformation in my life. Not all of it was easy. Some things were painful – like the growing distance between me and my girlfriend, which eventually led to her leaving me. At the time, that was hard to accept. But now, with some distance and after processing a lot of what came up afterwards, I see that it was ultimately for the best. I’m grateful to her for having the courage to end something that, in the end, wasn’t making either of us happy. The regular calls with Bene and the other guys, the way we reflect together on what we’re going through, and the lectures – where Bene somehow always manages to share exactly the kind of insight we need at just the right moment – all of that has helped me to act more and more from a grounded, secure, and loving place. And I’m truly thankful that I gave myself the push to join the mentoring and take responsibility for my life when I did. I’m writing such a detailed review because I want to be honest: you *can* skip the mentoring and just stick with the videos – if you’re not ready to step far outside your comfort zone and invest serious time and energy. The cohort only works because of the commitment of everyone involved, and the courage to show up vulnerably – including Bene himself. But if you’re ready for that, and if you have the resources to invest your time, energy, and money – then go for it. It’s worth it.

My name is Martin, 30 y.o. from France. I joined after a breakup, wanted some advice on what I really wanted in a relationship and how to actually build one in which I would thrive. After a call with Bene, I felt that the cohort would be able to teach me how to better understand myself and in term know what kind of relationship I am looking for, so I signed in. Towards the end of the 16 weeks, I found a new partner and thanks to what I learned and realized, I feel comfortable in this new relationship and for its future. I would suggest identifying what you want to learn and on what you want to improve to know if this cohort can help you.

My name is J.D. I’m 28 years old and I’m from Minnesota, USA. My ex and I were starting to have trouble communicating after a really tough 2024 and I started to look for advice on YouTube and came across a few of Bene’s videos in my recommended and a lot of the things he was saying was making a whole lot of sense. After watching several of his videos, I decided to check out his mentorship program. I had my doubts: like how can this 23 year old kid possibly know more about relationships than me, someone who has 5 more years of life experience than him? Well, turns out this dude has an old soul and a vast amount of knowledge and wisdom well beyond his years. Unfortunately, the relationship I was in during the cohort didn’t last, but the lessons I learned, unlike my relationship, will stand the test of time. I am feeling quite optimistic about the future, despite having just ended a 4 year relationship. I would tell someone on the fence about working with Bene to do it, lean into the lessons and your fellow group members as much as possible and don’t be afraid to just let go and spill your heart out during the calls, the more you share, the more you will get out of this. Peace and love.

I’m JD, 23, from Houston, Texas. I was tired of hitting walls in my dating life. I needed something that actually made sense—and Bene’s approach stood out as different from the usual fluff. I wasn’t sure if it’d be worth it, but the way Bene broke things down felt real and grounded. It just clicked—and I’m glad I trusted that instinct. I’m more confident, intentional, and clear-headed. Everything from how I speak to how I carry myself has improved. Don’t overthink it. If you’re serious about growth, this mentorship will shift your mindset and your results.

Hi, I’m M, age 25 from the UK. My ex broke up with me and I had a moment where I thought I need to make some changes, I wasn’t in a good place and needed to improve myself as person. I saw some videos on YouTube from Bene and I thought maybe he can give me some support through this difficult time for me. I was doubtful about whether this will work. But I knew that if I tried regardless I wouldn’t regret not trying. I’m in a better place now. Physically and mentally better and having my gift and wisdom now to help myself, friends and people I care about.

My name is Leo and I’m from the UK, I found Bene when I was at a loose end/low point in my relationship. I didn’t know what to do next and I had no vision (no positive vision at least) for what the relationship could be in the future. At first, I started watching Bene‘s videos on YouTube and they really resonated with me, but I was hesitant for several months until I pulled the trigger and bought the mentorship. It changed EVERYTHING. I now have plans of proposing and marriage with my partner, and things are worlds different. We’re on an upward spiral. There are still things that I’m working on in the relationship, but I’m aware of them, have a deep understanding of them, and I have a vision for where I want us to be, which allows me to lead us both to that destination with confidence. If you’re unsure about working with Bene, just take the leap. His videos have found you because you’re in a place where you need some help and guidance, and there couldn’t be a better place/person to guide you through this next learning period.

Hi Daniel here, I am 28. After my last breakup I started to see a relationship pattern that repeats and ends the same way. Once I saw Bene's videos I decided to look into his mentorship as I liked his healthy view on Relationship and masculinity. Of course, I was bit pessimistic about the whole process, but I must say it went much better than I expected. I now can work with and recognize mine/my partners behavior patterns. I am much more confident in my relationships and now I have tools to deal with many different situations where previously I would struggle. Overall, I feel very positive and self-assured after Bene's mentorship.

Sandro, 35 years from Switzerland My five-year relationship was marked by arguments, fights and misunderstandings, and I was on the verge of ending it because I saw no other way out of this downward spiral. Fortunately, a friend of mine sent me one of Bene's Video which highly resonated with my problems. I kind of felt heard, understood and not alone. The knowledge and exercises provided in Bene's lectures, combined with the group sessions gave me the perfect "toolbox" to work and develop myself in the right direction. As said by others, you have to do the work - but if you're willing to do so, the world is yours.

My name is Lucas. I'm 35 years old. I'm from Lithuania. The Youtube algorithm recommended one of Benes videos and it just clicked for me. I filled out the form he linked in the video without having any expectations and soon after Bene reached out for a discovery call. The investment seemed significant and I wasn't sure if it would be worth it until the very last moment during the call when I asked him if he could guarantee success. I remember vividly how he answered with confidence - yes, if you do what I say. Having gone through the cohort I can tell you for certain that if you do what he says you will be successful. Mind you it won't be easy and the doubts that followed me were simply my own ability to execute. When he asks you if you are ready for change be sure that you are. And although there is going to be help - Bene is the bright lighthouse guiding you through the storm, that doesn't mean it's going to be easy. If anything it's going to be hard. He gives you everything and you should respond in kind. It's up to you - easy choices, hard life - hard choices, easy life...

My name is Marcus and I am 21 years old and I'm from Perth, Australia. I entered Bene's mentorship after my 2 year relationship ended but this was definitely still so worth it! My initial fear going into this was that I was going to learn surface level advice you can find on youtube after a quick search. But what made me enter it anyways was Bene's brutally honest words in his youtube videos and just how fast I could relate myself to the issues he pointed out; words i needed to hear. Right now where I'm at is the best place mentally I have ever been, pure confidence with women and dealing with issues that I would have never been able to solve if it weren't for Bene's dedicated support and his wisdom. If I was to talk to someone who was unsure about working with Bene, it comes down to a simple question: Do you really want to become a better partner and man in your relationship? If the answer is yes, then leave it in Bene's capable hands; all you need to do is listen to him and put in the effort.

Hey, My name is Yeabsera and im 18 living in Sweden, I found Bene when me and my girl started dating, I had been searching for a mentor in relationships and personal development and I had prayed to the lord for guidance. I even prayed that IF this was not a mentor for me that god would take the opportunity away. There was no specific moment that inspired me but I knew I had a lot of growing to do so I said why not, life is now and you only live now. Obviously fearing that I could get scammed crossed my mind, and worrying I wouldn't grow as much as I hoped. Both worries got debunked btw but as mentioned life is now so go for it 😅 After the cohort one of the biggest changes is my comfort with not being on constant good terms with my girl, it doesn't take all my energy and focus, I can actually enjoy my day and feel light in the shoulders even if she's upset with me which then helps me be more grounded and receptive towards her. It feels amazing as a relief... To feel like you're allowed to be happy even when you make mistakes, slowly realizing you're not your mistakes. If you're unsure about working with Bene, ask yourself what's most important to you right now in life... What will be most important in 5-10 years... Yes im young and not rich at all so yes for me it was a little expensive haha but it's an investment in my future... For the average person maybe it doesn't affect you as much but... This even inspired me business-wise through some of the principles.

I'm Ivars - a 25 year old from Latvia at the start of the course. After ending my previous relationship I was struggling to find good advice that actually corresponds to my goals in learning how to grow a relationship with a woman, instead of giving "dating hacks" advice. Watching only a couple of Bene's videos I already understood that this is the type of person I want to learn from and the exact type of advice and knowledge I want to implement in my own relationships. Loved the thorough explanations of concepts, while also having concrete action steps to follow in order to implement knowledge in practice!

Hi there! I am Jakob, 23 years old and I am from Germany. My relationship was pretty healthy to begin with but like everything else in life I knew that there is more. More of what I don’t know or haven’t tried and especially the interest in other peoples behavior in order to expand my own horizon. Because I have watched a lot of Bene’s content on YouTube there weren’t any significant doubts about working with him. I knew right off the bat that he's not just some guy good at talking but has a fundamental expertise based on knowledge, true emotion and experience. As I said before I started off from a pretty good foundation in my relationship. But talking to Bene and seeing how he tried different perspectives and interpretations I managed to fortify my trust and connection to my partner even more. Her and I talked about topics I never thought we needed because of the insights I got from Bene. If you are reading this right now seeking for the last push to finally pull the trigger just go ahead and do it. It has been a huge benefit to my life and even more for the people in the community who were struggling or were going through hardships with their partner. So there is no reason not to do it. The fact that you are reading this right know, is reason enough to take action into your own hands. If you wouldn’t be needing Bene’s advice you wouldn’t be here.

My name is Joshua van Scoyk, I’m 28 years old and from the state of Montana in the USA. The thing that made me pull the trigger to check out Bene's mentorship for my relationship was not being able to enjoy the amazing woman I have and feel the love or see the reality of what’s actually going on due to my anxiety and childhood wounds. I actually didn’t have any doubts about working with Bene, I’ve watched him on YouTube for a while and enjoyed his content. I very much connected with his words and scenarios he described. That gave me hope that I wasn’t the only man with this “issue”. I’m honestly no where near where I want to be due to big changes in my life, but I’m honestly less anxious. I see my partner is on my team and we both want to grow a deeper stronger connection. I also see now that we love each other very much and that we just had some harsh trauma that got in the way of reality. I’m feeling a little more confident and seeing my path in life a little easier. I would tell any other man to give it their best shot and to work hard with Bene, he is very personable and caring. He has been in our shoes and he has done the research on the masculine and feminine dynamics. He puts a great deal of time and effort in everything he does.

George, 37, United Kingdom. I decided to work with Bene after some time trying to investigate various factors about why my relationship was not working. It was continuing to speak downwards and I didn't even know where to begin to try to resurrect it, I knew that if I didn't do something things would only get worse. I came across Bene's work on YouTube and felt he might be able to help me so I reached out. My main concern was that it might be too late already. I trusted Bene from the outset. He just seemed an honourable guy and has proven himself to be just that. My relationship was at such a dark point that I didn't have much to lose anyway and decided to go for it. While my situation is not typical as I am not only attempting to improve my own inadequacies regarding dealing with the fairer sex (they do not teach you this stuff anywhere) but my partner comes from a very traumatic past which makes things doubly difficult. While the relationship is far from resurrected (I said this would be a tough one) there are some small encouraging signs, particularly in my own behaviour when dealing with her intensity and moods. We cannot change others, but only improve ourselves. I do find her her occasionally apologising for her bad behaviour and paying a little more respect to me too. Small beginnings. We'll see, but it gives me reason to continue on this journey. I would say give it a go. You've a lot to gain and Bene has a wealth of knowledge he can teach you if you are willing to learn in many areas - not just related to relationships - and he conveys it in a way that is easy enough to understand and gives you ways to start applying it instantly. You will level up your life and your relationship if you take the plunge and are willing and able to try something new with an open mind and heart.