When I took counseling from Aby, he had a fever and body ache, and he still came on zoom to take the session. He told me this in advance, and I wondered how the session would continue. But what a beautiful session I had. I am 65 years woman, and for the first time in my life, I had the experience of realizing the universe or experiencing the presence of god within myself while on zoom with Aby. He explained that attaining spiritual awakening from moment to moment has two factors. 1. We already ARE being, and we have Being within ourselves. All the grace is available within us in the form of our being. You may call the universe, soul, or kingdom of heaven. 2. We are missing the "devotion" to surrender our mind to our being. Once we can surrender our minds to our being with all its conditioning, we will be able to realize the being/god within ourselves. And during our session, Aby makes me realize the power of being almost three times by teaching them how to go within. I will never forget that session. For the first time in my life, I realize that I don't need o read to worship any personal god. I don't need to read scriptures, do yoga or meditation, or go on any pilgrimage. The being is available all the time with us. We are not realizing IT as we have no devotion to surrender our being.
I have been on a spiritual path for almost 35 years but started doing profound meditation last 15 years. I have done all kinds of mediations and other spiritual strategies like shamanism, letting go of your emotions, LSD etc. When I wanted to take a session from Aby, it was evident that I wanted to continuously abide in my authentic self as I was tired of seeking outside of myself. My mind always wanted to do new things to have a unique experience. Aby asked me to stop seeking outside, and he taught me on zoom (yes on zoom) how to abide in my inner Being and stay in the present moment. Also, he explains to me why we are facing painful situations and people and how to dissolve thousands of years of mind's conditioning by surrendering it inward in our true selves. For the first time in my life, i came to know that living in the present moment means keeping 50% attention on our inner body chest area while doing our daily activities, which established me in the present moment. He also explained to me how to forgive and bless my deceased parents as I was very guilty as I never felt grieving my parents. I understood that observing our thoughts and waiting for the process of letting go of our repressed emotions is a waste of time. Everything will let go of itself once we abide and rest in being.
I took other counseling programs for years, so when I came across Aby's program, I gave the cold shoulder. I thought another counseling session without any substance. But I was wrong. In Life Transformation Program, I learned how to realize and act by being consciousness. For the first time, I had a glimpse of my True Self, that Higher Power that makes you feel all is beautiful. I was so still and calm during his sessions. I had some genuine questions about my life for a long time, and my mind was not letting me rest until it was answered or resolved. My mind was not forgetting those questions. I tried even to bury it deep, but that was giving me restlessness, and i was getting sick. Every fiber of my being was asking for the resolution of those questions. Taking sessions with Aby, I didn't get the answers to the questions, but Aby made me realize that those questions are irrelevant. I tasted that elusive awakened state, and those questions disappeared. The stillness remained. My mind structure broke, and I realized my being. Aby, I am incredibly grateful for your help.
I finished the 1-to-1 Life Transformation program with Aby and I loved it. In the first week, I learned how one of my biggest challenges in life is sabotaging my whole life and how I am making the same choices because of that suffering. Aby made me see that and now I am choosing different options for the last three weeks. In the second session, I realized why I faced the same situations and people due to those choices and what to do. More importantly, I know how to transform those situations and people by first changing myself. Aby made me realize how to die before we die and that we are all eternal life. Now I understand that there is NO Death. In the third week, he taught me how to live in the present moment using different portals and surrendering to being. Now I know how to transcend the world, so the world is not affecting me much. Living in the present moment is the reality now. I wish I had encountered this program earlier, but that is also an egoic wish. Whatever needs to happen will happen at the right time as, on the whole, everything is well. Thank you for this beautiful program at such a reasonable price.
2022 has been an ego toxic year after what seemed to be 2 rather conscious years (ha, the ego was lurking). In January 2023, I left what I called home in Egypt in 7 hours leaving behind belongings, friends, a toxic relationship and a deserted soul. I hopped on a plane, I was already realigning with source/ being/ consciousness/ God or whichever human made word resonates with you but I could not feel it at the time due to an overdose of adrenaline accumulated over the months. Paused 3 weeks in Europe to then head to South Africa, the new home of this soul.
One evening on facebook, I came across a post by Aby on some spiritual groups. It spoke to me and I checked out his page. Aren’t I lucky! Aby not only is on the conscious path but also offers a lot of material on how to connect and 1 on 1 sessions.
“I” decided to write an email to Aby pouring out “my” despair and letting the ego roam. I immediately received an answer to my email. Aby sent me some articles that I read and my answer to his kindness was “I already know all this but HOW to apply it?” And poured out some more ego going into some details of the last 3 years.
Aby’s answer said “you can book a 1 on 1 session but don’t do so if you want interesting practical advice”. I was intrigued!
The newsletters with more articles continued until one day before Valentine’s I received the special offer. What better self-love and self- care present than to take care of me? And so I booked.
2 days later I spent the most “being-speaking” hours of my life in a video call with Aby. His message was simple, nothing I hadn’t heard before. But something in me finally deeply understood to a visceral point the message.
Let me paraphrase the things that mostly stuck to me were:
- you didn’t choose (the painful situations), your ego did. To make a choice you actually have to be conscious/ connected
- until you surrender, allocated karma will happen. It can only exist in the egoic actions
- allow the being to take over mind and body (not the other way around and go from doership to non-doership
- always stay 2/3 in the being during “normal” life
It transformed my life! So simple, nothing new yet something was triggered for me so breathe this message and anchor it in the heart and coherently connect the mind to it. Life since is flowing. Meditation and yoga train me to keep the state of being connected also during work and routine. Every breath is deep and freeing. The past feels even more foreign to me and it is: the ego was acting in it vs the being appreciating the beauty of this human life form in the now.
Everything is in the simplicity and candor of Aby. His energy through the screen is contagious. I started hectic and ranting until reaching an almost meditative state.
It was my first 1 on 1 ever with an online spiritual teacher (which is a term that does not do Aby justice) - BEST EXPERIENCE ANS INVESTMENT EVER!
Forever grateful, sorry for taking so long to share my gratitude publicly.
Ps: the picture was taken after the talk with Aby and a yoga retreat called “navigating change” - my smile was NOT like this before these life changing events
Aby, your counselling sessions were genuinely life-changing. I took therapy sessions for eight years from a professional psychotherapist, but it never made me realize my true self. He just made me roam on the surface of my psyche. It was a total waste of my money and time.
Taking only three sessions with you made me understand that the eternal peace i am searching for outside its already within me. And you taught me how to access that inner peace through "abiding in being" practice. In this materialistic world, somebody like you wants to help genuinely. God bless you.
It has been 7 years since I have been reading and listening to spiritual materials and it has always been very calming. Somehow, I found Aby on Facebook and got to read his book which I found immensely helpful in this journey. Later I had this privilege to have a 1 to 1 zoom session with Aby and it was mind blowing. He explained various terms to me such as ‘allocated karma’, ‘anchored with the Being’ and ‘inner and outer purpose’ and a lot more. He even pointed to my addiction of book – reading which is making me move in a vicious circle. It was so relaxing to talk to him as his knowledge is deep and thorough. It was always joyful to read spiritual books but having talk to someone deep into it was on another level. I am grateful for his insights that he shared and advised. I was moving in a pendulum swing which he helped centring. Thanks a ton Aby!!!!
Thank you! Hearing Aby for the first time was like coming home. He reiterated what I had felt in my heart and resting in being is a feeling that I indeed felt and can do all the time! Confirming that there is no ego was icing on the cake and I am so excited to delve into the resources he sent and immerse myself into resting in being. So simple! I will definitely update and I highly recommend Aby! I asked for clarity and I got clarity; simple and pure.
I can't stay in the present moment once challenges arrive in my life, personally and professionally. I am in a grocery business, and working hours and money suck. I want to spend time with my kids, but this business sucks my life out. I have wanted to venture into something close to my heart for a long time. My main struggle is transitioning from my old business to my new calling, as my two kids and my husband depend on me. I am the sole earner in my family as my husband lost his job in covid, and he is busy starting a new business which means more expense. During 1-to-1 coaching, Aby explained how resting in being will help me in my transition. He also made me realize that 95% of the time, my mind is creating horror stories and making me feel worse. The reality is not that grim. He also gave the example of how he transitioned from real estate to spiritual teaching after his awakening. What I love about Aby is his caring attitude. Even after the session, he sent me recordings of the session with all the resources and is still replying to my emails. After learning to rest and abide in being, I never want to act from my mind- consciousness. My life is much better now. Thanks for being such a selfless human being Aby.
For my whole life, I lived in the mind-made world of displaying and advertising my suffering to everybody so people could console me and "know" what I am going through. I was born in a poor neighborhood in the United States. Had horrible parents. I got along with an abusive husband and then bitter divorce. For 30 years i am on an anti-depressant and now and then, sleeping only with sleeping pills. I always cursed my life; that why God gave me such horrible situations. After living 56 years on this earth, my suffering and pain have become my identity and i used to display it like a badge of honor. Until I took the sessions with Aby and understood that all situations and people I am encountering are God-given. Its given to me so I could attain awakening and transcend all these dysfunctions. I need to stop reacting from my mind and act from my soul. Listening to all these from Aby made sense as I was tired of fighting with the world with the knee-jerk reaction of my mind. I never had inner peace. After the session, Aby sent me his recommended article by email and guided me on how to live my life. Reading Aby's article and practicing meditation, my life is far more peaceful now. I wish I had taken the sessions from Aby sooner.
For last 5 years or so, I love being in solitude. I had a very bitter divorce and it extended for 6 years. I started taking sessions on spirituality from zoom from several organizations and usually, i had a group session on zoom for at least 25 to 30 people. During one of the sessions, one of the participants shared with us Mr. Vohra post about "why we face painful situations and people". That post made a huge impact on me and I took a session of aby after contemplating it for so many months. I am happy to tell you that my decision to take the session was right. It was nice speaking to Aby. Understanding my struggle, he told me that I am looking for solitude within and oneness of my being, not external triggers (people/situations/things) to feel peace or oneness. He told me that all mind's noise is ego (in the form of relations, power, money, and appreciation) and is just resistance to surrendering within. I learned to see all dysfunction of my mind with awareness, and now I am living a comparatively more peaceful life than in my past.
Thank you for your 1-to-1 coaching/session. It was truly eye-opening. Especially your teachings about enduring and non-enduring awakening. I now have a much better understanding of why spiritual awakening can be challenging at times.I am grateful for your guidance in these painful times of my spiritual awakening and establishing me in peace and awareness. Best Regards Carol woolsey
I took a session with Aby when planning to change my old career. I was a professional model, and after a significant health issue, I gained 48 pounds. Later in life, i started coaching people in health and weight loss in a reputed gymnasium. During covid, I lost interest in coaching people in health and nutrition as I got attracted to the teachings of buddha and wanted to teach people in how to build their life on the principles of realizing their inner being. I started coaching my existing clients. But I need clarification about my role and purpose and have conflicting emotions. Sometimes I feel sure and willing to share my ideas, but other times I feel like an impostor that I might mislead people. I am eager to make a meaningful difference in the world, but I need to figure out how to channel my efforts. I want to be of maximum assistance, but I fear I may not have what it takes. During this time I come across Aby's articles and took a coaching session from him about how I go ahead with my new career of spiritual teachings. I was astounded by Aby's knowledge as he recommended some books that helped me profoundly. Also he taught me these principles
1. I need to teach what I need to learn. As teaching is the highest form of learning.
2. I need to understand that What I have loved, others will love, and I will teach them how. Hence I need to be in love and committed to my subject.
The 3rd principle is potent. 3. I will wait forever if I wait until my motives are pure and unselfish before I do something.”
These principles changed my life, and I am pursuing my new career fearlessly and with lots of faith.
Due to suffering in my marriage, I awakened while reading Aby's articles. After that, I took counseling sessions with Aby. Somehow I had the deep inner urge just to be and go within my being, leaving everything. I just wanted to be still or runaway to ashram/monastery and find myself. I took sessions with Aby and he reaffirm that this calling from my inner being is authentic. During the session we connected so much that we shed tears together. He make me understand by giving his own example about how when we awakened and our dying mind make us feel worse there is nobody to help us as there is no understanding of spiritual awakening. Finally I felt that somebody understands my arrival of awakening and departure of mind's conditioning. He taught me how to go inwards in my being and act from that center in day-to-day life. He also told me that we don't need to seek our SELF outside us. If I had not been in touch with Aby, my mind would have made me insane. Thank you so much
Your sessions have transformed my life forever. I have been reading eckhart tolle books for the last 10 years, and your teachings are very complimentary to him. Though i know how to be in the present moment, my mind was always automatically drawn to unconsciousness and my awareness went haywire. Once I learned how to remain in being-consciousness instead of mind-consciousness from you, my life is not the same. Now I can remain in the present moment for a long time. In true words, I can understand how to be genuinely conscious only after your session and for that I am incredibly grateful to you Aby.
I was, and am, comparatively happy with my family life and two chidren. But there is a constant feeling of missing something, as if there is a call from the center to "Just be". Somehow I want to run away from all and just sit in solitude and meditate. There is a constant call from within myself for just to be. I am doing job, but i want to avoid climbing the corporate ladder. Somehow i came across the book of Aby-The Courage to Awaken. I loved the chapter on the dark night of the soul. And that's what I was precisely feeling within my soul. Somehow my outer level was happy with these pleasures of the world but i was constantly feeling so much hollow from within as if I am not living from the deeper part of my soul. Whenever I talked to it, my husband said we will live spiritual life later when we grow old, so now let's live wordly life and become as successful as we can. I didnt understand the logic of this at all. As they say first within and then without. So I want first to sort out my inner challenge and the outer will take care of itself. I took the session with Aby during Christmas, and he established me in living in the present moment. After our sessions, he also sent all the resources to refer to for years so I could keep abiding in my being and continue my spiritual practice. Thank you.
I am 59 years old and contemplating a divorce from my eight years of second marriage. One of my friends forwards me one of the articles of Aby. In no time, I was absolutely sucked in by aby's articles. I had never felt that kind of inner peace in my life before. I was into motivational teaching of keeping our body in "peak state," "raising your standard," and "manifesting your desires". But those kinds of stuff were not giving peace neither was I able to make a peaceful decision of separation of my wife. In fact after reading aby's article, I decided to speak to my wife with "my being". And while communicating, i was continuously surrendering my mind inward. And we talked and talked and finally came to a very peaceful decision to stay together. My wife and I both cried a lot. After that we both took counseling from Aby and in three sessions, we realized that there is "no relationship". It's just moment-to-moment relating in the present moment. We were in relationships with our mind's image of each other but not with the real essence of a person that aby called being. He taught us to act towards life from the inner being. Now at least our relationship is manageable. Aby recommended some books to read, and it really helped.
First of all, the time that i had almost given up on seeing some positivity or finding some meaning in my life, is when i found out about Aby through Facebook. I read the book and every message in it trickled down inside me as if i was waiting to hear them. What followed was inexplainable peace. As Aby says, rest in your being and you will know the solution/ you will get the divine message as divinity is right within you. I can't thank him enough for his messages and his sessions. I congratulate him for taking up the task of being a messiah/ messenger of divine wisdom. I am excited to see what he has in store for us in the upcoming years.
I am posting this testimonial as I felt strongly about giving feedback about Aby's session. This is not my real name. Recently I have gone through a bitter divorce from my eleven years of marriage. I have three children. I was always worried about my younger daughter's and my husband's self-centered behavior. Being an Indian I feel lonely in US as I have no relatives here. However, I am familiar with spirituality and reading many spiritual books. But somehow, I was always entangled in the past and future, not living in the present moment. My challenge was how i could permanently make my home in the present moment. Aby taught me that living in the present moment is not the same as living in outside circumstances with your mind fully present. To live in the present moment is to get rooted in inner being. To invite your mind rest in being and then act from being. He told me a wonderful story about ramana Maharshi teaching meditation to a child, while making him eat "Dosa" (an indian dish). Ask Aby to tell you that story. My life is never the same after taking sessions with Aby and living from being. I am established in being and, therefore in the present moment.
After reading the book - The Power of Now, I lost interest in egoic competition and achieving this or that! I started feeling detached from desiring "things" and didn't want to manifest anything. There was a split in me. Where my mind wanted me to become achieve like before. But my authentic self was calling me from inward. And due to that divide within me as I was extremely stressed. I need clarification as to which part is right and which is wrong. Thank God I came across Aby and took the session from him. I desired to live in a more constant state of happiness, peacefulness, and gratitude. As I lost my mind conditioning because of my awakening, I felt that i am lacking passion and motivation in my life. Aby explained that in the early stages of awakening, there is a tug of war between my mind and true self. And why I am feeling alienated from the world at this stage. He taught me the real meaning of living in the present moment and how to live life from the BEING-Consciousness!