Meeting Staci and Tom after going to other therapists, they were very welcoming and passionate to help and have a more meaningful approach. As a husband I felt lost and my wife felt out of gas, we were stuck. Our first session was amazing with Staci and as a man I got to speak with Tom when I really needed extra help. For anyone reading and curious, you have to do the hard work, listen and follow what they teach and you will have a better view. Don't give up.
Staci is amazing. She allows both parties to speak, doesn't take sides and allows each person to understand the other persons side. She is the real deal
Staci is my sister-in-law and have known her for 13 years and in that time has helped me many times navigate through some difficult times in my life. She’s a fantastic listener which is so important to truly understand what a person is trying to convey. She’s so caring and compassionate and truly cares about people. Thank you very much ❤️
Staci is professional, wise and very caring. Looking forward to continuing working with her. My husband and I are feeling very hopeful after just a few sessions!
Mark Vogt
After going through an extremely difficult time in our marriage, I realized that there were a lot of things I didn't know or understand about myself and relationships in general. We were on the verge of divorce after 20 years. I decided that I needed to do something to try and repair the damage that had been done. I was only hesitant about working with someone because it meant looking at myself and really taking accountability for mistakes and behaviors that were the cause of our issues. No one wants to have a spotlight shine on their biggest flaws. I think that there has been tremendous growth and improvement in our relationship since I started working with Staci. She helped me look at how my behaviors were formed and how they directly impacted my relationships. I have been able to be more open and honest with my partner and allow her to do the same without feeling attacked. Learning about defensiveness has really been a game changer in our relationship as I have learned how to recognize it when I am going there and stop it. This has helped create more space for both of us to communicate. We still have a lot of work ahead of us, but I am happy about the path we are on. I am so glad that I was able to connect with Staci. I had watched a number of her online videos before looking into working directly with her. Her common sense and structured approach to relationships has been so helpful. When you work with her, you feel like she gets you and there is no judgment. I truly enjoy all of the sessions and the time just flies by, which always ends with me feeling even more hopeful. I highly recommend anyone who is having struggles in their relationships to reach out to Staci. I promise you that it will be worth it.
Well…Staci is amazing! She has helped me move forward in my new relationship with knowledge, care, patience and humor. I cannot recommend her enough, and will always be grateful for her wisdom, in the past and future ❤️
Suzanne
Generally, I am a tough nut to crack. Staci took the time to listen to what was going on in my life and from the moment she started speaking I was in tears. Deep, insightful, egoless. Truly everything you want from a therapist. I struggled with the kind of therapy where you talk for an hour and go on your way until next time. Never felt worth the money and time to me. Therapy has always felt like a chore. Staci takes a holistic view on everything you have going on, helps to unravel and work through it in a way you understand, and then gives you practical work to do until the next time you meet. If there is anyone worth the time and money, it’s Staci.
Staci is the absolute best.! My relationship with her has been nothing but amazing and in my case, life changing. Staci has brought me to a point where I want to live again and be the best that I can be. My marriage was stale, my life was stale. Thank you my dear friend, Staci Bartley, for your love and ongoing support.
Staci and Tom Bartley truly care about couples (and individuals too) to help them with improving the health of their marital relationship. Their insight and teachings is spot on!
My boyfriend and I came to Staci because we were ready to call it quits but didn’t want to give up without exploring all our options . Staci has given us our hope back from the second we met her . She is wicked smart and extremely knowledgeable in her field!!!! Her approach is truly magical!!! She is not your basic therapist!!!! She’s a teacher and will give you solutions and tools to help you navigate through the ups and downs of your relationship with your partner and yourself . She is loving, caring compassionate and just a beautiful soul all around . You can tell right of the bat that she has a real zest for life and for helping others . I can’t say enough amazing things about her . Everyone needs Staci in their life !!! She’s a real life unicorn !!!
Great first time consultation with me and my husband. We hit a rough patch in our 6 year marriage and needed to add some tool boxes to out journey. For the experience so far it is a good fit as they are personal, professional and can cover may backgrounds.
Jenny Schlee
From the podcast to actually speaking to Tom already change my life, thank you aooo much for making it ok and comfortable to share my story and struggles and creating a platform for people like me who didn't have anywhere to turn to
Very sophisticated, professional whom thinks outside the box; rather than being closed off, when it comes to couple counseling. Staci, was able to distinguished our traumatic bond and Co-dependency by our second session. Her visual teaching by drawing to give us a broader idea really sets an impact for those who learned or understand better through visual learning. Staci, really focuses on creating a stronger yet independent structure for a relationship and self healing.
My husband and I started seeing Staci just a few months ago and it is crazy how much progress we have seen! My husband was not about therapy until we met Staci. He was worried that he was going to get the blame for everything. Complete opposite. She advocates for both of us and has given us so many tools to help stay successful in our marriage. We both have such a sense of relief and we cannot wait to continue on this journey. The Better Love Club is also an amazing group where we are able to talk about topics as a group knowing that other couples are going through it too. It is such a great community to have! Thank you, Staci for helping us navigate through this rough time!!
Stacy was very understanding and insightful. She listened and gave positive feedback. I would highly recommend her.
Julie T.